2angels2016
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My friend got me a pandora angel charm after my 1st mc, and I got another myself after the 2nd mc. I placed both on a necklace to wear almost daily. I feel that it helps me with my grief as they are close to my heart.Hi all, can I check if you all did any service or get something to remember the baby? I felt like getting a birth stone to remember my baby but I am worried it makes me reminded of the grief and cannot move on.. yet I felt sorry if i didn't do anything for the child.. I felt I could have done so much more for the baby but not given a chance to protect it.. is it better to move on and let the baby live in my heart and memories forever? I know this can be quite personal for everyone..
I guess it is quite personal as everyone deals with it differently. It took me a year to walk out of the shadows and even now talking about it to others makes me tear. But it will get better. Jiayou everyone! Take time to grieve, but also take care of yourself, connect with your hubs and remember that our rainbow babies will come back to us.