Hopeful mum: no worries at all, jus hope u dun misunderstood wer I'm coming fr.
Of cos we are happy wif my frnd no.3 jus tat ironically she happened to edd abt the period wif wifey shd we nv MC n we feel the impact suddenly cos all along she project to us she wouldn't want no.3 due to finance, age n poor relationship with hb. She's a sahm, past 40 wif still 2 still beri young boys at 4 & 2 with medical issues. She nid to self-handle both young ones daily due to hectic work schedule of dh. She's doing amino test today, to be honest wifey n I oso praying for her, (though we just MC) still hope she can have a healthy baby 7months later.
Maybe we are those more truthful n transparent ppl, cos we hates hypocrites. Often ppl ask us do we prefer a boy for no.3 given we oredi hv 2 princesses, we will answer them straight, we would love to have a boy definitely cos honestly we oredi hv 2 princesses bt healthy is still the 1st priority, the rest we have to leave it to fate. Bt then we often heard different answers fr ppl ard us which sounds beri beri 'fake' to us; "no preference lah, etc.." Oh com'on no 1 will penalized u for those desire n preferences realli, why can't u be more honest?
Jus take for e.g. tat preg with no.3 frnd, all along she oredi projected sour relationship with db, and finance big issue for them, so no way she would go no.3 due to all circumstances, tatz why we are a bit taken back by her sudden gd news.
Tatz why we feel the impact n sour, nothing against or even up to resent at all towards preggie women let alone say she's wifey n mine frnd. We even offer to send her kid to Sch due to her amino test today, she's handicapped. I still face my tat preggie colleague almost everyday with smiles oso.
N I totally understand what u n dolly gal are going through now, like I mentioned earlier, Gynae oredi told us get ready for an abortion for no.2 at 12weeks, miracle happened n she happened to survive. Pinkish bleeding non-stop tat time, n we are oso on dozens of jabs fr week 12 till 35. Not easy at all reall, i.e. I sincerely wish n pray for u n dolly gal everything shall be smooth till u hold ur rainbow kid beri soon!