chanced upon this thread. not sure if i posted before, but just to encourage all the mummies here to jiayou!
I have been thru the lost of my baby at 23 weeks plus before. the fustrations, the bitterness, the anger, the self blame, the sadness, and the so many mixed feelings at that time.
But I was lucky, cause he was with us for two days in NICU before he left us. He was a true fighter. He was borned very premature, but the doctors decided to try saving him, so he was in hospital for 2 days. Btw, I still remember very very clearly, he left us on christmas day 3am in the morning.
Now I am a mummy to 2 kids plus 1 up in heaven. It is not easy for me to have the other 2 kids, as they are born premature as well, one at 27 weeks, the other at 34 weeks, but I am bless to have them. I rested a lot, and went thru lots of injections like u all, and of course non-stop worrying, especially for my 3rd child.
Life is never smooth sailing. I guess we are just those few unlucky ones.
I had kept a blog for my eldest boy in memory of him, i find that it helps a lot to ease my pains.
you may like to do that too.
http://jared.ido.per.sg/
(a bit of problem with the chinese wordings)
I truely wish all mummies here the very best, and hope all of you will be bless with children besides you like me very very very soon.
Btw, i will like to recommend dr ann tan from mount E to you. She is good with high risk pregnancy. I was seeing her for my 3rd pregnancy.