camomile_opal
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I found out I was pregnant when I was a month into my new job. I was slightly more than a month pregnant by then. I had pregnancy spotting and had to be on mc. Thus, my boss has come to know of my pregnancy.
About 3 wks into the new job, I keep feeling that the job is not right for me now and then. (In my new job majority of my colleagues seems to do OT which I deem excessive and it really puts me off). I had even contemplated about calling up my old colleagues/ boss and see if they still have vacancies. But I have not done that. Now that I know I am pregnant, I feel that it might be unfair for my old work place if I were to go back there.
Please advise what should I do ? Should I stick out here in my new job and hope that things will turn out for the better and deliver my baby here or should I go back to my old work place. If its my old work place, how should I open my mouth to tell them ? (feels kindof weird to tell them do you still have headcount? and then I am slightly more than 1 mth pregnant)
Btw, I didn't sleep well last night cos I think I dreamt or kept thinking that this job is not right for me. Partially cos a lot of ppl left in that team and there is noone to guide you around as a newbie I find it tough.
Am afraid my worries might affect my baby.
About 3 wks into the new job, I keep feeling that the job is not right for me now and then. (In my new job majority of my colleagues seems to do OT which I deem excessive and it really puts me off). I had even contemplated about calling up my old colleagues/ boss and see if they still have vacancies. But I have not done that. Now that I know I am pregnant, I feel that it might be unfair for my old work place if I were to go back there.
Please advise what should I do ? Should I stick out here in my new job and hope that things will turn out for the better and deliver my baby here or should I go back to my old work place. If its my old work place, how should I open my mouth to tell them ? (feels kindof weird to tell them do you still have headcount? and then I am slightly more than 1 mth pregnant)
Btw, I didn't sleep well last night cos I think I dreamt or kept thinking that this job is not right for me. Partially cos a lot of ppl left in that team and there is noone to guide you around as a newbie I find it tough.
Am afraid my worries might affect my baby.