We were together for many many years before marriage but maybe I was blinded and maybe I was scared no one else would want me and I would be a spinster.
We have young kids now (under 3).
He has done things that has made fell out of love with him. Granted he has not cheated but he has/is:
- lied about his whereabouts (once) ;
- extremely stingy and calculative with me (but insanely generous with his family); and
- He has a very bad temper.
When he gets angry he would scream at me , insults me, throw chairs, bangs doors etc.
He is a very hands on dad but when he is angry he still does the above when the kids are present.
I have voiced out my feelings many times but he always repeats the mistakes and blames me for pissing him off so whatver actions he does when he is angry is somehow my fault?!
I want to leave but I know I will not have anyone support. I am not close with my mum and I do not really have friends. He was always my main person since we got together.
I just wanted ti rant and thank you if u managed to read it till this far. I have no one else to turn to.
We have young kids now (under 3).
He has done things that has made fell out of love with him. Granted he has not cheated but he has/is:
- lied about his whereabouts (once) ;
- extremely stingy and calculative with me (but insanely generous with his family); and
- He has a very bad temper.
When he gets angry he would scream at me , insults me, throw chairs, bangs doors etc.
He is a very hands on dad but when he is angry he still does the above when the kids are present.
I have voiced out my feelings many times but he always repeats the mistakes and blames me for pissing him off so whatver actions he does when he is angry is somehow my fault?!
I want to leave but I know I will not have anyone support. I am not close with my mum and I do not really have friends. He was always my main person since we got together.
I just wanted ti rant and thank you if u managed to read it till this far. I have no one else to turn to.
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