troublewife
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Dear all
I m very troubled recently as my hubby whom is a real estate agent recently got to know another lady n they are partnering to do a project together.
Few weeks back i realise that things are not so normal. Everytime he drop me at office afterwhich he will call her for few mins. I suspect is to arrange meet up.
What is alarming is when I happen to chance upon their messages are those flirting around type. I was even more upset when I saw my hubby texting her asking her to go jogging in one of the parks. When I checked back the call threads. Apparently he has been calling her on n off for few nights. My heart shattered. Cos I know that my hubby is a good honest man.
The whole night I lose sleep. Next day morning has a talk with him n he say they are jus normal frens. He show me all the messages n also their conversation. I expressed discomfort at the way he chio the gal for jogging. He say is to build up team spirit. Anyway only the two of them in the team.
After that day conversation , hardly or no more night calls. SMS all official type. Two weeks past, they are stationed at a project. I called to say I go down to look for him after work n he quickly say no, ask me to go fetch our kid from Childcare. I went n really anxious. Bump into them n intro myself to them. The gal appeared to be super friendly. When we are heading towards my hubby car, she has left a pair of shoes in the car. She quickly explains to me why she put the shoes there.
Why I feel that is it appeared that my hubby will start SMS her or call her once everytime a new development has occurred to their project. I know my hubby really hold this project strongly. Deep down inside my heart, maybe I m feeling insecure, cos I m fat n not that slim. hmmhmm...is 7yrs into our marriage . Got one 2.5yrs old kid ...
Yeah confided in one of my fren. She say trust is impt. I agree too. Trust is impt in marriage. But sum how I know they are meeting everyday. Should I be jealous or really mindful of what is happening ?to be honest, I m very tired from constant suspecting. Cos I have to work n take care of my kid. yo, I jus had sex with my hubby. Felt much better.
I m very troubled recently as my hubby whom is a real estate agent recently got to know another lady n they are partnering to do a project together.
Few weeks back i realise that things are not so normal. Everytime he drop me at office afterwhich he will call her for few mins. I suspect is to arrange meet up.
What is alarming is when I happen to chance upon their messages are those flirting around type. I was even more upset when I saw my hubby texting her asking her to go jogging in one of the parks. When I checked back the call threads. Apparently he has been calling her on n off for few nights. My heart shattered. Cos I know that my hubby is a good honest man.
The whole night I lose sleep. Next day morning has a talk with him n he say they are jus normal frens. He show me all the messages n also their conversation. I expressed discomfort at the way he chio the gal for jogging. He say is to build up team spirit. Anyway only the two of them in the team.
After that day conversation , hardly or no more night calls. SMS all official type. Two weeks past, they are stationed at a project. I called to say I go down to look for him after work n he quickly say no, ask me to go fetch our kid from Childcare. I went n really anxious. Bump into them n intro myself to them. The gal appeared to be super friendly. When we are heading towards my hubby car, she has left a pair of shoes in the car. She quickly explains to me why she put the shoes there.
Why I feel that is it appeared that my hubby will start SMS her or call her once everytime a new development has occurred to their project. I know my hubby really hold this project strongly. Deep down inside my heart, maybe I m feeling insecure, cos I m fat n not that slim. hmmhmm...is 7yrs into our marriage . Got one 2.5yrs old kid ...
Yeah confided in one of my fren. She say trust is impt. I agree too. Trust is impt in marriage. But sum how I know they are meeting everyday. Should I be jealous or really mindful of what is happening ?to be honest, I m very tired from constant suspecting. Cos I have to work n take care of my kid. yo, I jus had sex with my hubby. Felt much better.