Hi Trustbaby,
I am now 34 with 2 kids, both from IVF. I was 27 when I did my first cycle with him in 2008. Was also very disappointed when it failed the 1st time. I took no
pay leave during the 1st cycle in order in order to rest well. but since it wasn't successful, I went bk to work and continues for 2 cycles. After that, I resign from my job as teaching was quite stressful and was hoping that I can conceive naturally with the medication from Dr Loh. Sadly, again couldn't work so went for the 4th cycle. I almost gave up after the 4th cycle coz I suffered OHSS and was in hospital for a week.
I told my hubby that I wanted to give up as I thought that it was dated for me to be childless. It was my hubby who encouraged me to go thru the final round and he told me that if it was to
fail again, we will just give up. Luckily for us, it ws finally success and I went bk to teaching.
At that time, I really do not know where I got the courage from to continue but I know that having kids is really what I want. That strong belief gave me the strength to carry on.
Hope my story is an inspiration to you.