Hi
RyanMelissa
I am not sure if their is any group for divorce mum.. Thanks for the advice.. I know its bad to keep having negative thinking.. n I am working hard to think positive.. just smt cant stand the look of ppl. when they start comparing their kids against my and start talking among themselves that this mum bring her kids out alone bla bla bla.. just wish they can leave me alone n dun discuss abt other ppl.. give me some space..
Hi mama_joanne
Thanks... I m trying to ignore the others n jus focus on my kids.. yup the guys will nv understand the bond between mum n kids... esp the feeling of having a baby inside us... they would nv understand it.. n I m always proud to tell my friends its a feeling guys would nv have.. the feeling when our kids first move inside us... its the best..
I am not sure about getting into another relationship and not very positive of guys able to accept me n my kids.. its my kids now that is the most important they must be able to accept him.. n also it wouldnt be juz us.. wat about his family.. chinese still have the stupid "surname" thinking..
During my div.. my ex can actually tell me he want my son and I can have my girl... I was like wtf.... n my ex dad still can say no matter wat cant give me his grandson.. lucky i have both my kids... if not i dont know wat will happen to my son sia.. grow up like his dad??? smt i cant image..
Hi Linwong
Totally agree with you... guys would nv understand the hardship we went through with our baby inside us.. Smt only we ladies would know..
Hi J55
Thanks, I will keep remind myself to think positive.. n enjoy my life.. Enjoy ur trip to HKG.. so far I only bring them go Genting whenever I can afford.. n seeing them having endless energy to play n I was already supper tired.. but its still very happy... seeing the smile in their face.. everything is worth it..
Hi pofy..
U have the same feeling as me... my div process was hell as I have 1 boy n girl at first he wanted both kids and hide them away from me as my girl was still very small when we file div she ended up in hospital... n found out from his relative... when i saw her at hospital she was all alone at the age of 1 at hospital with poo all over her crying like crazy... he throw her alone there so that ppl can look after her..
my boy i nv see for 3 mths only after court ordered him to let me see him.. the moment I saw him.. he totally forgotten me... refuse to even acknowledge me.. n worst still he keep look for the lady he have...
n i found out his affair when I m having our 3rd baby... n his affair coz me to lost my baby.. going through the miscarriage n div together is hell for me... reading his affidavit abt what he write abt me is even worst...
I even went to counseling n its was my kids that make me pull through all these... basically everyday is work n kids...
at night is the worst even till now i sometimes cant even slp... its hard getting used to slping alone... smt juz cant slp or keep waking up...
jus wish all these would end soon... he would leave me alone... smt i do wish i do not have a boy instead having a girl den maybe he wouldnt pester me so much till today... smt juz wish him dead... or at least that new gf of him to give me a boy den he would leave me alone..
its like endless trouble... no wonder the elderly always say.. nv find a wrong husband or u will regret for life...