! BAD Experiences During DELIVERY !

Discussion in 'Motherhood, Pregnancies And Babies' started by cecilathome, Oct 13, 2010.

  1. cecilathome

    cecilathome New Member

  2. snowpooher

    snowpooher Active Member

    I read with pain with your horrible delivery experiences! Did you lodge a complaint with the involved hospital? It seems that the nurses were so inexperienced.
    Do you mind sharing with me via PM which hospital and female gynae that you had?
  3. ica

    ica Active Member

    sorry to hear about your horrible experience. Do you mind sharing with me via PM which hospital and gynae that you had?
  4. cecilathome

    cecilathome New Member

    Jen & Ica,

    PM you gals liao...
  5. sg_preciousbabe

    sg_preciousbabe New Member

    so sorry to hear that.
    pls PM me the hospital and gynae as well.
    Thanks and take care.
  6. jolinr

    jolinr New Member

    Hi Cecil,

    Sorry to hear about your delivery experience.
    I am a first time mother too. The anxiety and scare is undescrible.
    Can you please pm me the hospital and gynae?
    Thanks
  7. cecilathome

    cecilathome New Member

    Jolin > sent liao

    Darling > your pm was off
  8. sg_preciousbabe

    sg_preciousbabe New Member

    Hi Cecil,

    Sorry, it's on now.
    Thanks.
  9. era07

    era07 New Member

    Hi Darling,

    I might be the last one who read your blog.. Iam so scared now. My EDD is abt 2 weeks time.. Can you tell me which hospital that you went for deliver?? [​IMG]
  10. rosnyus

    rosnyus Member

    pls pm me! i may want to have a second child.

    horrid! hope you feeling better now
  11. cecilathome

    cecilathome New Member

    Darling > done
    Era > I think u r asking me. Tried to reply but ur pm is off
  12. cecilathome

    cecilathome New Member

    Rosnyus > done
  13. cecilathome

    cecilathome New Member

    In case any of you didn't receive my reply, please kindly leave a message via my email or my blog as I may not come in that often. Thanks.
  14. judy_lsk

    judy_lsk Member

    Hi CECiL,

    Can pm me which hospital & gynae? Hope it's not RH.

    Thanks
  15. jess_lau

    jess_lau Member

    Can you please pm me the hospital and gynae?
  16. loppi_tan

    loppi_tan New Member

    So sorry to hear about your experiences. Dun mind can pm me the hospital and gynae? Thanks.
  17. belle_1980

    belle_1980 Member

    CeCiL,
    I am so sorry to hear about your ordeal!Could u kindly PM me the hosp & gynae u went to? Im currently 10 weeks preggy.
  18. tigermummy

    tigermummy New Member

    Hi,

    can you please pm me the hospital and gynae? thanks
  19. cecilathome

    cecilathome New Member

    July baby, pinkydots,loppily,ashley,samantha > sent
  20. capjan

    capjan Member

    Hi,

    I want to know whic hospital and gynae too if you don't mind. I have bad experience with a female gynae, so am wondering if its the same.
    Thanks much.
  21. queenofoeb

    queenofoeb Member

    hi cecil,
    pls pm me name of hospital and gynae.
    thanks v much
  22. meizl

    meizl Member

    Me also delivered in a well established private hospital. Disappointed with their shortage of manpower, esp during the nite in the baby ward - imagine 2 nurses taking care of 25-30 babies! Most bb cried for nearly 20-30mins before they got fed. Many mummies don't know cos they are sleeping. Unhappy with the long wait - 1.5hrs during discharge too, just one nurse handling discharge for the whole ward! If not for the HIN1 flu thingy beginning of the year, I would have stick to my 1st hospital with ample parking space some more....
  23. chongfz

    chongfz New Member

    omg! that is so horrible... can u PM me the hosipital and the gynae name too? This is my first pregnancy and i hope it will go smoothly >.<
  24. humama

    humama Member

    Hi Cecil,

    Really sorry to hear about what u went thru. Do rest well and recover soon..

    Appreciate if you could share with me the hosp n gynae when you're convenient.

    thanks
  25. pinkiechong

    pinkiechong New Member

    Hi Cecil,

    I was horrified by ur story especially when de gynae is a female~!!!

    Can u pls email me de hospital and name of gynae?
    tks!

    xrionxrikux@gmail.com
  26. blueblue

    blueblue Member

    Hi Cecil

    sorry to hear abt yr bad experience. hope u recover fast.

    can u email me the hospital and name of gynae? Thks!

    fruity_29@yahoo.com.sg
  27. jo1234

    jo1234 New Member

    I hv read your blog and really feel for u. It must have been hard on u n ur Hubby having to tolerate all this nonsense. Do Recuperate well n congrats!

    Btw if u don't mind can u share with me on the gynae's name? Thanks!
  28. jo1234

    jo1234 New Member

    I hv read your blog and really feel for u. It must have been hard on u n ur Hubby having to tolerate all this nonsense. Do Recuperate well n congrats!

    Btw if u don't mind can u share with me on the gynae's name? Thanks!
  29. shey

    shey New Member

    Hi Cecil

    I am so sorry to hear about ur bad experience, Hope u recuperate fast.

    can u PM me the hospital n gynae's name? Thks!
  30. vivi08

    vivi08 New Member

    hi sorry to hear that
    can pm me the hopital and gynae? i'm thinking of having a #2 thanks
  31. shannii

    shannii New Member

    Hi Cecil

    Take care and hope you have a speedy recovery.

    can u PM me the hospital and gynae's name when you are convenient. thks
  32. ponpon

    ponpon New Member

    oh dear,, it must have been traumatic..
    hope U recover soon.
  33. starnight

    starnight Member

    Hi Cecil, sorry to hear abt ur experience.
    Can pm me the gynae's name &amp; hospital? Thanks.
  34. meizl

    meizl Member

    Hi Cecil

    Speedy recovery.

    Can pm me the hospital and gynae's name? Thanks
  35. lye3290

    lye3290 Member

    Hi,
    can you send me the name of the hospital and the gynae too?
  36. xtneqt

    xtneqt New Member

    Hi Cecil,

    I hope you are better now.
    Can you pm me the hospital and gyne? Im also giving birth at a private hospital.
  37. xtneqt

    xtneqt New Member

    Hi Cecil,

    I hope you are better now.
    Can you pm me the hospital and gyne? Im also giving birth at a private hospital.
  38. fen38

    fen38 Member

    Hi Cecil

    Can you pm me the hospital and gynae?
  39. lingelle06

    lingelle06 Member

    Hi Cecil

    Pls also PM the name of the hospital and gynae to me. Your experience was too scary till I feel that I have to avoid this hospital and gynae too.
  40. afann

    afann New Member

    Hi ceil could u pm mi as well ? As I think I knw which hospital u stating as mine is almost same experience u .. Piss my hubby lots ..

    Thank you n rest well!!!
  41. missy_miao

    missy_miao New Member

    Hi Cecil, can send me the name of the hospital &amp; gyane? My EDD is in mar next yr..thanks..

    missy_miao@yahoo.com.sg
  42. thesignaturehouse

    thesignaturehouse New Member

    hi
    can you PM me too?
    Wish u speedy recovery.

    Many Thanks
    CK
  43. roiv

    roiv New Member

    hi
    can you PM me too? I am delivering in Nov [​IMG]
    Wish u speedy recovery.

    Many Thanks
    Roiv
  44. dodonut

    dodonut New Member

    hi, so sorry to hear abt your bad experience, hope u recover from it all.

    could u pls PM me the gynae + hosp details?

    tks
    dodonut
  45. okeanosmao

    okeanosmao New Member

    tats v scary. the nurses der are student nurses? so unprofessional.
    n yr gynae too...so unreasonable.

    can u pm me which hospital &amp; gynae?
  46. cyl_16

    cyl_16 Member

    Hi, I'm keen to know which hospital and gynea name too ?

    Take Care

    Thanks,
  47. janeh

    janeh Member

    Hi Sorry to hear abt ur experience. Can PM me the hospital and gynae name too? Thanks.

    Take care ya!
  48. wenbao

    wenbao Member

    shiXXTY!Crap!Can u email me this terrible hospital n gynae!realli feel bad for yr horrid experience!crap!!!
  49. muffin_bear

    muffin_bear New Member

    hello,
    this is unbelievable....
    please PM this @#$% hospital and gynae.... thanks!!!
  50. bluemarinesg

    bluemarinesg New Member

    Things like this happens... at premium hospitals too. Mine own experience was not exactly pleasant but thankfully, there were more nurses/doctors/cleaners/security guards who saved the day.

    There was this one nurse who 'spoilt my day', she was known as nurse Daphne:
    1. she commented my water (from the water bag) smelt horrible. While I had never smelt another ladies 'water' and I agreed the smell was more a stench than an aroma, I thought she as a 'professional' should have behaved better.
    2. she administered the enamea (what is it? the solution they inserted into the anus to clear our bowels in preparation for labour?)and told me to go to the toilet 'to shit' (yes, that's her exact words). I knew from my friends that I had to 'clear the system' otherwise, there might be 'leftover' coming out during the birth process. I didn't want such embarrassment, so I tried my best to clear. She began knocking at the door like she needed the toilet bowl after a few minutes. I kept saying wait and half wondered if she would break in hahahah... THen she shouted,'nobody took that long like you.'
    3. She said some nasty things just before my labour. I would have shot my mouth off if not for the fact that my life and my baby's life were in their hands and I depended on them to bring my baby safely to this world. Call me stuperstitious if you like, but I think being sensitive to the expectant mum's feelings is very important, especially from a service provider. I told her off by saying,' if you cant say anything nice, please shut up.' There was another nurse (let's call her nurse b) in the room as I said it and the whole atmosphere was really tense.

    The snr mid wife attending to me got wind of this and immediately came into my ward to check the situation. But she didn't say anything so I thought she was just doing her rounds. She told me after my birth that nurse b told her about this espisode. Snr mid wife didn't know if she shd believe it (that Nurse daphne could be that tactless) or that I was a difficult expecting lady (I was housed in their premium delivery suite and usually the rich or famous use that suite. But me is neither hahahah). But when she saw how quiet I was (no complaint, no demand), although obviously in pain and discomfort, she immediately ordered a change of personel so that nurse daphne would not be involved in my case anymore.

    All in, I think the rest of the team saved the day. THe aneasthetist stayed around for more than 24 hours just to make sure I was ok. The rest of the nurses who attended to me adn the snr mid wife popped by to visit me and my child during my stay in that hospital. Despite all, to this day, I am grateful for their kindness and help. All in, Premium or public hospitals, there bound to be the good and the bad. We can only pray hard for good luck and great professionals will be there to help us during our delivery.
  51. whitewindy

    whitewindy Member

    Hi Cecil,

    I'm also keen to know which hospital and gynea name too ?

    Please PM me.

    Take Care

    Thanks,
  52. poopoo

    poopoo Active Member

    Hi Sorry to hear abt ur experience. Can let me know the hospital and gynae name too?

    Take care!
  53. ding_ding

    ding_ding Member

    Hi Cecil,

    I hope you are better now.
    Can you pm me the hospital and name of the gyne?
  54. hopefulmummy

    hopefulmummy Member

    Hi Cecil, can you pm me on the hospital and gynae name pls. Thanks.
  55. yfchee

    yfchee New Member

    HI Cecil, sorry to hear about your horrifying experience. Can pm me the hospital and gynae name please? Thanks.
  56. matsu

    matsu Active Member

    I hv read your blog and really feel for u. It must have been hard on u n ur Hubby having to tolerate all this nonsense. Do Recuperate well n congrats!

    Btw if u don't mind can u share with me on the gynae's name? Thanks!
  57. mommygal

    mommygal New Member

    hi cecil, read ur experiences frm ur blog &amp; felt so sorry for u to have undergone such worse experiences when u shud hav actually been really happy with ur baby's arrival. I am so angry and frustrated with such people who being women themselves are so careless about the pains and sufferings of their same kind! If u dont mind can u pls share(PM) me abt the hosp n gynae...
  58. elisechow

    elisechow Active Member

    i felt so angry and helpless for u! can felt the pain, anger and abt esp about the blood flowing part. how can like that? is it possible to go and complain at the Medical Council or something like that? too much. can PM me the gynae's name and hospital?
  59. littlebudot

    littlebudot New Member

    Hi Cecil,
    can pm me which gynae and hospital is this? So horrible!
  60. avocado

    avocado Active Member

    hi cecil,
    reali sorry to know abt ur bad experience.Could u PM me the hospital n gynae?thanks n take care[​IMG][​IMG]

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