Hi Honeygem,
Sounds like you hv got one of those "eat-to-their-heart-content" maids.
I agree that we shld not starve them. They are working for us, making sure they hv enough food is our responsibility. But then again, over-feeding them is no good too.
Old grandmother's saying "when you feed the apetite big, it'll just get bigger and bigger!"
Maybe I could share with you what my maid eats ... for dinner the maid will have 1 meat dish(alternate fish & chken) and 1 veggy dish with her rice. If I cook some western dish or my invention dishes, she'll hv to prepare her own food.
For lunch, she takes 1 egg or ikan billis + veggy/carrot/beans with her noodle. Sometimes she'll fry rice or noodle, sometimes soup noodle, sometimes last nite's leftover. If it is my groceries day in the morning, I'll buy a pack of Nasi Lemak for her lunch. She takes 1 fruit everyday, usually apple/banana/pear/orange.
For breakfast, she eats 2 slice of bread with jam/kaya/butter + milo or coffee. If no bread, there is always plain cracker biscuits in the tin. Once a week, we'll hv roti prata - everyone's favourite.
So if you works backwards, it translate to the following amt for 1 wk ... so same as you, I need to top-up my groceries 2-3 times a week.
* 4-5 eggs
* 4-5 packs of leafy veg,
* 4-5 carrots,
* 3-4 portion of fish,
* 3-5 portions of chicken,
* 1 loaf of bread,
* 15-20 packs of coffee (for 1 mth)
* 1 can of milo (for 1 mth).
Perhaps you can try some of my tricks ... (I call this my subtle psychological hinting trick
)
* invite her to weigh herself whenever you weigh yourself
* keep telling my kids & family & the maid the goodness of eating 70% full for health reasons ( but must sound geninue that it is for her good)
* stress how cholestral builds up in our blood vessel due to too much fatty acid (EGG is one of the culprit, adults shld eat only 3-4 eggs a wk!)