Daberyoueeen
New Member
dear all, sorry I’m not a mom.
Please listen to my story.
So I met current fiancé 3 years back and have been together ever since.
His work requires him to be at Malaysia 2 weeks every month.
We are suppose to get married this June (~40 day-ish) .
However this recent months I suspected something is off and one day I checked on his mobile and found that he had a “affair” since end of last year... and from the pics I’m pretty sure it’s physical and maybe emotionally invested as well. I told him to choose either her or me and I will leave gracefully .
We have a bto flat thats only completed in 2020. A wedding in June . However all the expenses are not a factor since it’ll only be worst if I enter a loveless and futile marriage.
He told me he ended the affair in question however I am still distrustful. He told me he will still want to get married to me .
But why does he wants that ? Since we have no commitments (in a sense) and no children , isn’t it better for him to end now ?
I’m just confused, in addition to this impending wedding .
I love him and he claims to love me as well. But I’m just afraid .
Please listen to my story.
So I met current fiancé 3 years back and have been together ever since.
His work requires him to be at Malaysia 2 weeks every month.
We are suppose to get married this June (~40 day-ish) .
However this recent months I suspected something is off and one day I checked on his mobile and found that he had a “affair” since end of last year... and from the pics I’m pretty sure it’s physical and maybe emotionally invested as well. I told him to choose either her or me and I will leave gracefully .
We have a bto flat thats only completed in 2020. A wedding in June . However all the expenses are not a factor since it’ll only be worst if I enter a loveless and futile marriage.
He told me he ended the affair in question however I am still distrustful. He told me he will still want to get married to me .
But why does he wants that ? Since we have no commitments (in a sense) and no children , isn’t it better for him to end now ?
I’m just confused, in addition to this impending wedding .
I love him and he claims to love me as well. But I’m just afraid .