Hi morning ladies!
I just tested this morning. I got my BFP.
Will be using the clearblue just to be sure.
Congrats!!!
can I know when did you test? on DPO?
don't worry about spotting, i had that for #1 too. dr can give you an tai med for it.
Hi morning ladies!
I just tested this morning. I got my BFP.
Will be using the clearblue just to be sure.
Congrats Darbi!Hi morning ladies!
I just tested this morning. I got my BFP.
Will be using the clearblue just to be sure.
congrats darbi!Hi morning ladies!
I just tested this morning. I got my BFP.
Will be using the clearblue just to be sure.
I agree... I used the opk for 2 weeks I already damn stressed. Felt so much better to just enjoy bd-ing 2-3x a week as as and when we felt like it!! and this was how i bfp-ed too.I find best to stop opk after you have found it to be positive. Don't stress on the peeing anymore
The +ve to -ve doesn't always mean you have ovulated. It just means the surge is over. It's two different things. That's why I find no point opk after a +ve.
Just enjoy the bd 2-3x after the positive and let nature works it's course already. Having said that, it's also just as important to bd before your positive. We know the soldiers can live for days and linger near your ovaries. That was how I got my first bfp.
Hello ladies! I'm back again! Been reading silently.
Anyway, finally i've tried the cheaper ovulation test strips! Haha! To me, it was so exciting to use the strips! And because it's cheaper, i've been testing twice a day.
Just wanna clarify sth : I remember some of you said that we should see the OPK turn from negative (faint) to positive (as dark as control line), and then negative (faint or no more line) right? I caught mine like that. When it turned negative the last time, did it mean I have already ovulated OR ovulating then?
Today is my CD12. I tested with OPK on CD9 morning, CD9 night, CD10 morning, CD10 night and CD11 night (last night). The line was as dark as control line on CD10 night but very very very faint on CD11 night. Means what? I ovulated sometime between CD10 night to CD11 night?
Anyway, I BD on CD6 (more for fun. Haha.), CD9 and CD11. Felt cramps in my womb area yesterday (CD11) and it was more unbearable during BD. Hope HB's soldiers caught my egg! Should I BD again tonight just to be safe?
Maybe it is true...
that OPK and BBT does cause more stress..
I definitely feel much less happier since I embark on the journey of ttc-ing...
Seeing that so many ladies here can 'accident' and conceive.. I seriously think maybe I am infertile afterall.. Sigh..
And I feel all these stress really add up.. the more you wan, the more you won't be given. At least for my case.
Ya, that is my plan too but sometimes just too tired to keep up with it... My husband works late.. so sometimes he can reach home like 9+.. By the time he have dinner... I am almost asleep... And I don't think I am easily aroused also...@Piggling don't despair. Maybe we should take tips from @gammahedging 2-3x a week and not just during that period
Don't be.. your time will come ok. I am like you also. Feel so stressed about the whole TTC thing.
Ended up I just throw everything away and just bd frequently. Part of the reason was we abstain from sex as I was spotting after my MC for close to a mth. Then after everything clear, hahha we bd like mad and kena that mth. Its quite amazing coz I din raise my legs, wash myself straight after. Then me and my hub joke that it must be a strong soldier.
I know its not easy, but remember to keep your relationship in check too, yah. Cheer up
yoshi, no good. better cut downI always take cold drinks but menses are regular.... 2WW is such a torture
very true. i oso prefer daughters. cos daughers are e best, will tc of u. son usu will not be so sensitive n sweet. usu will listen to wifeu know what i'd say?1 good capable daughter wins 10 useless bum sons. simple as that. and be an influential woman like Michelle Obama, Hilary Clinton, Christine Lagarde, Ho Ching, not good meh???? They are better than a lot of guys out there for god's sake
wah very chiam lei. i don understandit cld have been the brand of oral contraceptives.. i tink it's a matter of trying out a few brands cos they have a diff amt of ethinyl estradiol (the oestrogen component) and diff kinds of progestin (e.g. norethinedrone which is 1st generation, to desogestrel which is 3rd gen.)
thanks piggling... ya lor. very hurtful hor. haiz..I also agree that TSB is very insensitive to comment on Emily's husband like this. Even if sperms not healthy, is not his choice, nobody want ourselves to be sick. As a doctor, she should be humble and understanding towards her patients. If she cannt cope, then she should not take in so many patients, end up PMS and insult them.
Emily, I really feel sorry for you and your husband. I know it must have been hard on him as well. If she insults my husband, I think I will scold her.. LOL... Makes me think twice about visiting TSB.
Emily, jia you! You see, so many sisters coming in and suggesting different TCM for you. You will see the light at the end of the tunnel 1!
yup i heard it is good too. but tat time dare not try.. so nv go for it. some more must find the right tcmNope. Only accupunture nearing O. I'm very very scared of needles. TTC changed my life. LoL!
did u chart temp??? (BBT ) if yes, u can share here and ladies here may guide u?Hi ladies, need some advice.. I'm on CD29 now, no idea when I ovulated or if I even ovulated. My left ovary is polycystic but I always have menses every mth, just that my cycle length may be abt 28-35 days. I usually have discharge all the time but this cycle quite dry and 2 days ago I had a tiny amount of brown discharge like just a drop. Yesterday had another drop of brown discharge and this afternoon, there was like a few drops. I have never experienced this kind of spotting before. Even if I had brown discharge, my menses flow will come like within half an hour or so. No pms cramps till now. My symptoms so far are sore boobs, heartburn, feeling bloated, frequent peeing, tired and sleepy. Should I take HPT tmr or just wait to see if af comes?
usually if u missed ur AF like 4 days, u can staart testing liao. in case is preg spotting, u could seek help immediatelyHi ladies, need some advice.. I'm on CD29 now, no idea when I ovulated or if I even ovulated. My left ovary is polycystic but I always have menses every mth, just that my cycle length may be abt 28-35 days. I usually have discharge all the time but this cycle quite dry and 2 days ago I had a tiny amount of brown discharge like just a drop. Yesterday had another drop of brown discharge and this afternoon, there was like a few drops. I have never experienced this kind of spotting before. Even if I had brown discharge, my menses flow will come like within half an hour or so. No pms cramps till now. My symptoms so far are sore boobs, heartburn, feeling bloated, frequent peeing, tired and sleepy. Should I take HPT tmr or just wait to see if af comes?
Congrats!!!
can I know when did you test? on DPO?
don't worry about spotting, i had that for #1 too. dr can give you an tai med for it.
Actually odds of getting pregnant are slim anyway, we only have 12 month in a yr, which is 12 chances.
To have the soldier meet the egg is also a challenge.
I feel Bding more will be better. haha
Actually was lucky this year as my hub was excused from his duties (he is a SAF regular) as he is waiting for some health examination, so he more relax got more time to rest. I was eagar. And bam... ahaha we bding as much as we could.
I think tiredness play a part too, last yr my hub was very stress, he can't perform at time, we bd also lesser.
Congrats darbi!!!
Congrats Darbi !
Take care and have a good rest !
For me, I continue to take cos it is like a kind of vitamins and minerals .. Prenatal vitamins and minerals to be exact .. So I gather no harm taking during AF not sure wat the other ladies here who take conceive well do
oh can take throughout daily??? i wanna consider trying too.continue to take...
Hi morning ladies!
I just tested this morning. I got my BFP.
Will be using the clearblue just to be sure.
Congrats!Hi morning ladies!
I just tested this morning. I got my BFP.
Will be using the clearblue just to be sure.
I tested Dpo18. Af supposed to come tdy but didnt so thougt of testing.
Thank you ladies!
Jus ended my appt with gynae. Cant see the sac cos too early.. lining is really thick though. Am given Duphaston to support pregnancy. Blood test tdy n Friday to check that pregnancy is indeed moving. Appt next week to find the sac.Haa
Ya, somemore I have longer cycles so my chances substantially lower.
I think I am just not the lucky few... So should just accept my fate.
I also think if can relax, really can make a difference. But with the busy working life in Singapore, I think v hard... somemore I feel I give myself a lot of stress...
Yup I dont google too much as I do see some poor ladies googled like mad and most of the time stuff out there are crappy. Everyone is different.
yaya.. darbi... agreed with sunflower.not good to google too much. hehehe cause u a lot of unnecessary stress. Generally if the doc never say anything I will treat it as normal and ok. doing well and finger cross. hehe
Don't say that. Sorry I halfway come into this thread. Did you see any TCM or gynae about ur longer cycles? Anyway to tiao it back to a normal range of 28-30?
Anyway, my friend who have super long cycle also got pregnant. Nothing is impossible yeah.
Medical very advance also. I think we must change our mindset sometimes
thanks! its my DPO12 today. very tempted to test but im having cramps. procrastinating.
What will be, will be... cannot force.
I am fine.. just that don't want to pin so much hopes and get myself disappointed again... want to take a backstep and just live my own life.
Congrats!
Congrats darbi.
Just to share, i did read that too thick lining is not ideal. There's like an ideal measurement range. Not sure if it's just internet crap. Hee.
What will be, will be... cannot force.
I am fine.. just that don't want to pin so much hopes and get myself disappointed again... want to take a backstep and just live my own life.
Oh. But my gynae is not concerned so i also ok. He worry then i worry. I trust him. Hee
yup 2-3x a week and not during o period. i also didnt know that I o-ed tt time... hahahaha so my bfp rly caught me by surprise@Piggling don't despair. Maybe we should take tips from @gammahedging 2-3x a week and not just during that period
not good to google too much. hehehe cause u a lot of unnecessary stress. Generally if the doc never say anything I will treat it as normal and ok. doing well and finger cross. hehe
I was also crampy for days. Tts y i didnt want to test any earlier. Scared disappointed right?
yup 2-3x a week and not during o period. i also didnt know that I o-ed tt time... hahahaha so my bfp rly caught me by surprise
Congratulations darbi!!! Rolls around in your dust.
Thank u!Congrats Darbi...