Wah, workaholic superior will never understand us for being family oriented. Worse still, her thinking must be if i can do it, you should too. It is difficult to work under a workaholic.
(2015/08) Aug 2015 Mummies
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Wah, workaholic superior will never understand us for being family oriented. Worse still, her thinking must be if i can do it, you should too. It is difficult to work under a workaholic.
Lil_Han_Mummy
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Yup that's why I'm kinda stressed out that I'll have to spill the news to her very soon. Hopefully, she won't be making things difficult for me
Hug hug. Maybe things arent that bad? You may not have any morning sickness and can keep from her as long as you can.
Lil_Han_Mummy
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Sadly to say, as compared to my 1st pregnancy, I having worst ms. Hope this phase goes away soon!
Mummyof3jays
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Hi all mummies. . So happy to found this chat.. just tested positive this week with my 1st one..
been feeling very tired, bloated and cant complete all meals..
booked an appt with dr Benjamin Tham in 2 weeks time. Super excited and hope everything is fine.
Congrats and welcome
same. i have been very tired too
My appt with Dr Tham is next fri... still waiting patiently. cant wait... been waiting for 3 weeks already
Mummyof3jays
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Mummyof3jays
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Hug hug, how are you feeling? If worry better get check with gynae.
crystalizwan
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Jus tested positive ytd now i dun know wat to do next
crystalizwan
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Do add me k
I have created a Aug 2015 Mummies secret group in facebook. Once we hit 2nd trimester , we will meet in there. coz i scare not all mummies are comfortable to reveal so much yet
Do add me k
Congrats! Next decide on a gynae and book appointment. Continue your folic acid and wait for your appointment! Relax and enjoy!
Mummyof3jays
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Congrats
Yes relax. It's a long journey. Dun worry we will be here to support each other . Jia you
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Been having super bad MS during morning and evening.... but am very happy. Finally going to see baby this fri. 4 more days... yeah!
Been having super bad MS during morning and evening.... but am very happy. Finally going to see baby this fri. 4 more days... yeah!
littledot3
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Feeling extremely blue today. Possibly Monday blues. Didn't sleep well last night too.
littledot3
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You hv to find the source of whatever triggered it. For me, i experience headaches and nausea. An empty stomach and milk triggers them. So i try to eat sth every hr. Fruits and nuts.
lovepeace55
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I didn't get very bad morning sickness but tummy keep feeling v bloated and mouth tasteless... And the hormone pills making me v tired and high.. My work requires 100% concentration so i can only take the pill early in the morning then late evening and just before i sleep.
Hi pinky! I have a dragon boy too, 25 months. I am with Dr Sim too!
Mummyof3jays
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mine hit me the worst in evening too.. i try to eat light snack or drink tea. i buy lipton camomile and peppermint. no cafferine
jiayou
Mummyof3jays
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i cant sleep well every night too
littledot3
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My Tcm says better dont drink tea. Especially English tea and chn tea. Too cooling.
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Lil_Han_Mummy
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I am experiencing very bad MS. Don't seems to be able to vomit anything out early in the morning. Worst is I have the feeling of pooping and vomiting at the same time. Just wondering if this is normal.
princess_sue
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hi mummies , i just tested positive ytd and i am not excited at all.. i feel vey very stress.... what should i do. based on calulation i should not be preggy..
I feel so depressed right now. my no. 2 is coming 8 mths. I dun think i can handle no. 3 . Currently i have help from both parents taking turns. But they have already expressed that they do not want to look after already as they are also aging... imagine a no. 3 coming along. I dunno how.. i dun trust maids as well and leaving young kid at child care is also a no no for me. I am now lost. Unless i quit my job... but that woldbe financially challenging. And i may be up for a promotion next year... now i dunno how it will affect my career growth. Oh gosh..... i feel like crying...
based on calulation i should not be preggy.. I feel so depressed right now. my no. 2 is coming 8 mths. I dun think i can handle no. 3 . Currently i have help from both parents taking turns. But they have already expressed that they do not want to look after already as they are also aging... imagine a no. 3 coming along. I dunno how.. i dun trust maids as well and leaving young kid at child care is also a no no for me. I am now lost. Unless i quit my job... but that woldbe financially challenging. And i may be up for a promotion next year... now i dunno how it will affect my career growth. Oh gosh..... i feel like crying...
hi mummies , i just tested positive ytd and i am not excited at all.. i feel vey very stress.... what should i do.
I feel so depressed right now. my no. 2 is coming 8 mths. I dun think i can handle no. 3 . Currently i have help from both parents taking turns. But they have already expressed that they do not want to look after already as they are also aging... imagine a no. 3 coming along. I dunno how.. i dun trust maids as well and leaving young kid at child care is also a no no for me. I am now lost. Unless i quit my job... but that woldbe financially challenging. And i may be up for a promotion next year... now i dunno how it will affect my career growth. Oh gosh..... i feel like crying...
Hug hug! Dun feel stress, all bb is a blessing. Your bb can feel your stress. Many ladies trying very hard and cant even have 1 bb. 船到桥头自然直. The god arrange this bb for you so accept it and plan for the best for them. Maybe get a maid to help your parents yo look after? As in your parents can oversee the maid, it will be less taxing on ageing parents and feel safer than leaving bb with maid alone.
Congrats to you! I not sure which gynae is pro natural, but im not as brave as you. I went through e-csec for my first, i dare not risk going through the same scary episode again.
Lil_Han_Mummy
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oh dear~ please don't be depressed. Baby is a blessing gift from god. You can also think of putting one kid to CC/infant care? However, hiring a helper will be a much better choice as it's so much cheaper than putting in IFC can also help your parents in some chores while they look after? *Hugs*hi mummies , i just tested positive ytd and i am not excited at all.. i feel vey very stress.... what should i do.
I feel so depressed right now. my no. 2 is coming 8 mths. I dun think i can handle no. 3 . Currently i have help from both parents taking turns. But they have already expressed that they do not want to look after already as they are also aging... imagine a no. 3 coming along. I dunno how.. i dun trust maids as well and leaving young kid at child care is also a no no for me. I am now lost. Unless i quit my job... but that woldbe financially challenging. And i may be up for a promotion next year... now i dunno how it will affect my career growth. Oh gosh..... i feel like crying...
littledot3
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Cooling food like pineapples, bitter gourd etc. Dang gui, ren shen to avoid. Unless u r consulting tcm physician, best dont take any tcm med on ur own or by medical hall. Heard a few stories from my physician.
crystalizwan
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Been having super bad MS during morning and evening.... but am very happy. Finally going to see baby this fri. 4 more days... yeah!
My add is [email protected]
crystalizwan
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My first appt is jan 8 at nuh... cant wait!!!
fairytale1982
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Tested positive using clearblue kit on 5dec & over the weekend i googled for gynae near my area. Do not wish to travel far each time to see doc.
So i went thomson women clinic & dr wong mun that did a vaginal scan for me. No blood test as pregnancy kit is pretty accurate.
Seems like dr wong mun that had quite good reviews on him.
Next appt is 23dec. Doc say shd be able to detect heartbeat if everything is normal.
So i went thomson women clinic & dr wong mun that did a vaginal scan for me. No blood test as pregnancy kit is pretty accurate.
Seems like dr wong mun that had quite good reviews on him.
Next appt is 23dec. Doc say shd be able to detect heartbeat if everything is normal.
Mummyof3jays
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Ya. That's y I try to drink once a day or 2 days. I used to drink 2 cups a day. Haiz
Mummyof3jays
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Congrats. Vbac can consider Dr Paul Tseng or Dr Benjamin Tham. Both tmc
Mummyof3jays
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Hugshi mummies , i just tested positive ytd and i am not excited at all.. i feel vey very stress.... what should i do.
I feel so depressed right now. my no. 2 is coming 8 mths. I dun think i can handle no. 3 . Currently i have help from both parents taking turns. But they have already expressed that they do not want to look after already as they are also aging... imagine a no. 3 coming along. I dunno how.. i dun trust maids as well and leaving young kid at child care is also a no no for me. I am now lost. Unless i quit my job... but that woldbe financially challenging. And i may be up for a promotion next year... now i dunno how it will affect my career growth. Oh gosh..... i feel like crying...
Talk to ur hb and discuss.
Maybe childcare is not a bad idea if u dun have enough help.
Tc and rest well. Pray about it.
Mummyof3jays
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congrats and welcome.
At this moment just rem take your folic acid until u book appt with a gynae
I stopped my teh o. But drinking lipton camomile and peppermint and it's without caffeine. Just to make myself feel better.
Mummyof3jays
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Welcome all new mummies. I am so excited. My 1st appt with Dr Benjamin is this Friday
Will add all mummies who pm me to Facebook tmr. Sorry having bad headache today
Will add all mummies who pm me to Facebook tmr. Sorry having bad headache today
Hi minko1983, I went thru e-csec too after failed dilation for 23 hrs, after 2 rds of induce... I hav doubts abt my prev gynae if it was really necessary to induce at that time... I dowan to go thru the pain of csect again, the recovery is long plus having an elder girl now, I really need to heal faster to take care of 2..
Thanks Mummyof3jays! I heard abt Dr Paul who's good at vbac too.. Had wanted Dr Benjamin for my previous #1.. will try both of them and see what's their view on my chance of vbac!
Mummyof3jays
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yes do check with them. my chance on vbac was high for #2 but he refuse to come out . overdue , end up no choice csec again. but i am still opting for vbac for #3
my fren #2 was success vbac with dr Paul
Hi mummies, i have been following this thread but no courage to post until i saw heartbeat at yday's scan. This is my 4th pregnancy and hopefully 2nd kid if all continues to go well.
Hi chubcan, you should avoid soft cheeses as they are not pasteurised and deli meats such as ham. I would avoid all cold drinks in the first trimester too. Based on what my tcm doc says some foods outside have dang gui so do be cautious e.g. braised duck, bak kut teh (brown type). I know fish head steamboat sometimes adds danggui to the stock too. Hope this helps.
Hi chubcan, you should avoid soft cheeses as they are not pasteurised and deli meats such as ham. I would avoid all cold drinks in the first trimester too. Based on what my tcm doc says some foods outside have dang gui so do be cautious e.g. braised duck, bak kut teh (brown type). I know fish head steamboat sometimes adds danggui to the stock too. Hope this helps.
Mummyof3jays
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Hi dear i need add u as friend 1st den can add u in group
accept me ok? gloria liuMummyof3jays
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Mummies for those who pm me your email add i can only find and add a few as some i cant find u using the email u give me
@crystalizwan, @cloudily , @pinky32 , , [USER=174600]@lovepeace55, @minko1983[/USER] , @Lil_Han_Mummy[/USER] added u please accept friend request in fb. Gloria Liu
@PassionDoReMi , @littledot3 : i found similar name but its a male account
@Libbie , , [USER=149513] , [USER=9609]@worry[/USER] please send me your fb email again . thanks[/USER]
@crystalizwan, @cloudily , @pinky32 , , [USER=174600]@lovepeace55, @minko1983[/USER] , @Lil_Han_Mummy[/USER] added u please accept friend request in fb. Gloria Liu
@PassionDoReMi , @littledot3 : i found similar name but its a male account
@Libbie , , [USER=149513] , [USER=9609]@worry[/USER] please send me your fb email again . thanks
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Mummies for those who pm me your email add i can only find and add a few as some i cant find u using the email u give me
@crystalizwan, @cloudily , @pinky32 , , [USER=174600]@lovepeace55, @minko1983[/USER] , @Lil_Han_Mummy[/USER] added u please accept friend request in fb. Gloria Liu
@PassionDoReMi , @littledot3 : i found similar name but its a male account
@Libbie , , [USER=149513] , [USER=9609]@worry[/USER] please send me your fb email again . thanks
Thanks mummy Gloria! Great effort!
whimsicar
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Hello ladies!
I just tested positive using clearblue last Tue and it's my first time so my hubby and I are really happy and excited! Yet slightly worried about what to expect in the coming months. It's definitely a blessing though Actually I'm not very sure of the edd yet, im just assuming it's going to be Aug 15 lol.
Went for my first gynae check last Thur but doc was unable to see any sac yet was kinda disappointed n felt like I wasted money lol. Took 2 blood tests after which confirmed the HCG levels are normal, and going for next scan this Sat! There should be the sac by then, so hoping all will go well ^_^
Take care all!
I just tested positive using clearblue last Tue and it's my first time so my hubby and I are really happy and excited! Yet slightly worried about what to expect in the coming months. It's definitely a blessing though
Actually I'm not very sure of the edd yet, im just assuming it's going to be Aug 15 lol.Went for my first gynae check last Thur but doc was unable to see any sac yet
was kinda disappointed n felt like I wasted money lol. Took 2 blood tests after which confirmed the HCG levels are normal, and going for next scan this Sat! There should be the sac by then, so hoping all will go well ^_^Take care all!
Mummyof3jays
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Hello ladies!
I just tested positive using clearblue last Tue and it's my first time so my hubby and I are really happy and excited! Yet slightly worried about what to expect in the coming months. It's definitely a blessing though
Went for my first gynae check last Thur but doc was unable to see any sac yet
Take care all!
congrats and welcome... yeah too early. i found out i was pregnant on 29th dec. my 1st appt is this fri. i waited till my neck grew long.. haha
