(2015/01) Jan 2015 Mummies

Oh, I juz rem I forgot to reply your PM! Silly me... How was the Aprisin sale?? Any good deals?? Which Aprica stroller did you get in the end? I am also eyeing Aprica but the latest Luxuna model, doubt it would be on sale though,,,

No worries, I just replied your PM. :) As for Aprisin, here are the sales items: http://www.aprisin.com.sg/specials.php?view_all=1

I was in a hurry ytd so I only went for what I wanted to see - the stroller. I got the Aprica Air Ria for $469, about 4kg. I saw the Luxuna. It's the high end series of Aprica, heavier than the Air Ria but more sturdy and (from what I can tell) made from better materials. It's not on sale right now so you still have time. :)
 


Stress during pregnancy bad for baby's brains
Scientists in Singapore uncover link between parents' behaviour and how young brains develop

Feng Zengkun
Put a group of children in a playground and all of them may seem happy. But, under the skin, some may already be well on their way to developing depression, addictions or other mental disorders.

Scientists in Singapore have uncovered how the stresses of pregnancy and poor parenting choices may affect children's brains and hurt them later in life.

They found that when women are more anxious during pregnancy, the children's brains tend to grow more slowly in the first six months of life compared to the offspring of relaxed mothers.

When children are abused, genes in their brains that respond to stress also become more active, causing them to suffer more, and more easily, from stress later in life.

Even emotional neglect can leave physical marks. These so-called epigenetic marks are chemical modifications of DNA that control the activity of genes.

In a Canadian study that looked at two types of rat mothers - those that licked their pups a lot and those that did not - the pups that were licked more produced less cortisol, a stress hormone, when they were provoked.

This could mean that, for infants, a parent's touch could be far more than just warm and comforting: It could set them up to be more stable people who are not easily panicked.

Being able to identify these physical changes that occur in the brain would allow doctors and authorities to more effectively single out which children and families need help, said Professor Michael Meaney from the Agency for Science, Technology and Research (A*Star).

The 60-year-old noted that the epigenetic changes are reversible. "It's not that an individual's fate is cast in stone in early life, and therefore unalterable. Quite the opposite," he said.

The Canadian citizen led the rat study as a professor of psychiatry and neurology at that country's McGill University. He is still a professor there, and is now also director of the Integrative Neuroscience Programme at A*Star's Singapore Institute for Clinical Sciences (SICS).

This week, he will be awarded the 2014 Klaus Jacobs Research Prize from the Swiss charity Jacobs Foundation, for his work in how parental behaviour affects children's brain development and lifelong function.

He intends to use the 1 million Swiss francs (S$1.35 million) prize money to fund local and overseas research that uses biology studies to find out how to identify and help the vulnerable children.

He said that, currently, authorities tend to use blunt indicators such as poverty to predict risk. "But many children grow up in poverty without family dysfunction and major health problems," he said.

"What we need to do is to understand the impact of social adversity on the individual child."

He noted that such personalised treatment is already available for some physical diseases: "In heart disease, we can take a blood sample, look at it, and say to the person, you need lipid-reducing medicine, or you are likely to benefit from physical exercise."

Singapore's Gusto (Growing Up in Singapore Towards Healthy Outcomes) study, which Dr Meaney and SICS are involved in, is one such attempt to identify the epigenetic imprints of parents' choices and mental well-being.

It began in 2009 with some 1,200 expectant women, and the researchers are still tracking their children, who are now three to 41/2 years old.

Originally intended to shed light on how metabolic diseases arise from early life, it has branched into other areas such as allergies and the developmental advantages of babies exposed to multiple languages.

Dr Meaney is also working with institutions in the United States, the Netherlands and Canada to study the effectiveness of intervention methods.

The programmes each involve hundreds of at-risk mothers. These include women who were themselves abused early in life, do not have stable marital relationships, live in poverty or suffer from drug addiction.

Some of the women, while they are pregnant and for two years after their children are born, get regular visits from nurses, who advise on maternal health, parental care and more. All of the children will also be observed until they are in their early adulthood.

DNA will be collected from the children and divided into groups, depending on whether the child's parents received help and whether the child is doing well. The researchers hope to identify epigenetic marks that predict treatment outcomes for individuals.

"Ideally, we would be able to say that children who carry this or that biochemical marker are more likely to benefit from intervention," Dr Meaney said.

He said anxiety and attention deficit disorders, and even some forms of depression, can occur in children before they are 10 years of age. "By the time the children approach puberty, you can also start to see evidence of addictions, depression, and more, so we don't have that long to wait."

Most mental disorders occur in late childhood and early adolescence, he added.

But the findings have to be verified in a different cohort of children, so reliable results could take many more years.

While the foreign studies may involve Caucasians, the findings will be applicable to Asians. "Unlike for, say, heart disease and diabetes, there appears to be a universal set of conditions that render the brain vulnerable and mental health disorders more likely to occur," he said.

Asked for his advice for new parents, Dr Meaney suggested setting aside time for each other and the family.

"I know that's simplistic, especially when you have families where both parents may have to work, and work long hours, to make a living. But it really is the parents' emotional well-being, and their interactions with their children, that will determine the long-term health outcomes."

Societies, including the authorities, also need to examine the demands placed on parents. He added: "We cannot underestimate the importance of social relationships and families.

"That's something we need to cling to."

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for those who missed black friday sales... you still can get some good deals today
 

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Booking for The Grand Astor Afternoon Tea at Brasserie Les Saveurs, St. Regis, on Friday, 5 December at 3pm:

Confirmed:
1. Eliss (@ecym) (1A)
2. @Archie7 (1A)
3. @charkwn (1A)
5. Clarissa (coffee only)
6. Grace (via whatsapp)

Unconfirmed:
1. @amberosw
2. @cuteowl

Booking under name Mrs. Larissa Leong. Cost: $49++ for adult and $24++ for child 4 - 12 y/o.

I booked the table for 3pm coz that's when the high tea officially starts but if people want to meet earlier to chit chat over tea/coffee, I will call the hotel to ask if we can be seated earlier. I don't think they are fully booked on Fri afternoon. Anyone?
 
Booking for The Grand Astor Afternoon Tea at Brasserie Les Saveurs, St. Regis, on Friday, 5 December at 3pm:

Confirmed:
1. Eliss (@ecym) (1A)
2. @Archie7 (1A)
3. @charkwn (1A)
5. Clarissa (coffee only)
6. Grace (via whatsapp)

Unconfirmed:
1. @amberosw
2. @cuteowl

Booking under name Mrs. Larissa Leong. Cost: $49++ for adult and $24++ for child 4 - 12 y/o.

I booked the table for 3pm coz that's when the high tea officially starts but if people want to meet earlier to chit chat over tea/coffee, I will call the hotel to ask if we can be seated earlier. I don't think they are fully booked on Fri afternoon. Anyone?

Thanks Larissa... i can meet earlier if you want!
 
btw my gynae's clinic run thru estimated cost for elective C sect (excluding hospital stay)

1) Gynae cost - $2888 to $4188
2) anaesthesist - $300-$500
3) PD - $300-$500
4) Pd standby for emergency - $300-$500
5) daily visit by gynae when in hospital - $300++ per day
what else did i missed

so taking the highest end of the price as per guide - $6088 for 4D3N in hospital
then add hospital cost ..and NB tests ..

wah ...really not cheap sia... and the government still ask pple to have more kids lolz
 
btw my gynae's clinic run thru estimated cost for elective C sect (excluding hospital stay)

1) Gynae cost - $2888 to $4188
2) anaesthesist - $300-$500
3) PD - $300-$500
4) Pd standby for emergency - $300-$500
5) daily visit by gynae when in hospital - $300++ per day
what else did i missed

so taking the highest end of the price as per guide - $6088 for 4D3N in hospital
then add hospital cost ..and NB tests ..

wah ...really not cheap sia... and the government still ask pple to have more kids lolz

Which hospital is it? TMC? Can claim most of it from Medisave?
 
btw my gynae's clinic run thru estimated cost for elective C sect (excluding hospital stay)

1) Gynae cost - $2888 to $4188
2) anaesthesist - $300-$500
3) PD - $300-$500
4) Pd standby for emergency - $300-$500
5) daily visit by gynae when in hospital - $300++ per day
what else did i missed

so taking the highest end of the price as per guide - $6088 for 4D3N in hospital
then add hospital cost ..and NB tests ..

wah ...really not cheap sia... and the government still ask pple to have more kids lolz

ya lorz... plus hospital stay + OT room + all the medicine and misc stuff... i think easily 10-15k
 
Which hospital is it? TMC? Can claim most of it from Medisave?

yes TMC err.... you can only claim Hospital - $2500 and gynea $1450 ( for C section) they rest pay out of your own pocket unless you have insurance to claims
ya lorz... plus hospital stay + OT room + all the medicine and misc stuff... i think easily 10-15k
i think will be more ... lolz 4 years ago already $10k ...inflation for 4 years ..i think easily close to $18K - 20K

OMG my fil attended that wedding.... but y would the details b reported? need to wash ur dirty laundry in pubic meh... sigh
they din really reveal most dirty laundry wat lolz ..just only it is cancelled and gown enjoyed the night with friends and relatives lolz
 
Thanks Larissa... i can meet earlier if you want!

I'm interested in meeting earlier too. :) Such nice ambiance there, hopefully they can let us be sitted earlier.
 
btw my gynae's clinic run thru estimated cost for elective C sect (excluding hospital stay)

1) Gynae cost - $2888 to $4188
2) anaesthesist - $300-$500
3) PD - $300-$500
4) Pd standby for emergency - $300-$500
5) daily visit by gynae when in hospital - $300++ per day
what else did i missed

so taking the highest end of the price as per guide - $6088 for 4D3N in hospital
then add hospital cost ..and NB tests ..

wah ...really not cheap sia... and the government still ask pple to have more kids lolz
re getting a neonatologist to stand by for emergency .... i am reminded of the recent high court case involving dr lawrence ang. hmm.
 
errr... i nv watch b4. really so touching/nice?

Necessary to get? I didnt for #1. Any idea how much for the permit?
song is nice but i wotn say it is touching that i will cry. hahaa... but like what cripps siad... cld be hormones.

i have been getting very angry over the smallest of stuff recently
 
Hi hi for those who have recently ordered from carter's and shipped via borderlinx or cgw.. how much is the est shipping amt u have paid for? Tks!
 
Hi hi for those who have recently ordered from carter's and shipped via borderlinx or cgw.. how much is the est shipping amt u have paid for? Tks!
 
Hi hi for those who have recently ordered from carter's and shipped via borderlinx or cgw.. how much is the est shipping amt u have paid for? Tks!
if you refer to the black friday.. carters has yet to ship out the items so no way they can tell you how much the shipping to singapore going to cost

PS: i got just email from carters they will ship out today so it will take a while before i know how much it cost to ship to singapore
 
song is nice but i wotn say it is touching that i will cry. hahaa... but like what cripps siad... cld be hormones.

i have been getting very angry over the smallest of stuff recently
my temper also abit short but got to control lolz ... not fair to those who bear the blow lolz ...
 
yeah usually when it is clear that there will be $@#% happening that they will call the neonatologist. else...every normal birth also need to standby??? then the neonatologist wil be super bz
I suppose on standby we need to pay more also? if its not necessary can do without....
 



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