Baby2010,
Since I also put my baby with nanny, I will say sometime for nanny, u got to close 1 eye. reason being, although u pay her for taking care of ur bb, but she is nt related to ur bb at all, so if u lay too many rule, she might just tell u she quit. Quitting will be easy. But she dun quit but she start to dislike ur bb due to things u all as the bb parents do or say, she could easily took it out on ur bb. So why risk it. In my opinion it is good to maintain a good r/s with the nanny, at times suck up to her if required. At least, u know that by making her feel good, she will nt hv any bad feeling, and will return the goodness u given to her to ur bb.
My nanny is good like I always say, but there are still things tat I may not like her to do, but if it is minor, then I will keep quiet. If not, I will tell her in a nice way.
Remember nanny is not related to us or our bb at all, not like our mother or MIL, even if we anger them, we can be sure tat they will not take it out on thier grandchildren lor.
