missbluey, yes,my EDD is 8 June. Kind of expected that it will fall on 21 May, as my first one also earlier by 2 weeks plus.
Story: My son fall sick and have high fever on wednesday. On thursday, he become serious. I told didi inside my tummy not to come out until brother is well.
Then on friday morning, my elder son finally recovered from fever, so I take him to my mother house and I and my husband went for the routine gynae checkup. My Gynae then told me that I am already 3 cm dilated, but I do not feel any thing. No contraction, no pain etc. He ask me to go back in the evening to check again. Then I went back home to pack my bag then go to my mother house. In the evening, still did not feel anything. Went to check again. Gynae say is already 4cm and ask me to go to hospital at 9pm. Still did not feel anything, so we went last minute shopping at sun plaza, until i feel the contraction, like want to go output. The strength that you feel like pushing. I was scared that I will give birth anytime before reaching hospital. So we faster drive to TMC and check in.
At around 830pm, I already settle down in the delivery suite. The contraction seem to be quite frequent and more pain, but still can endure.luckily got TV, so watch the 9pm show while waiting, to make me distracted from the pain.
Then at 10pm plus, the gynae came and check. still 4cm. He make my water bag burst. Then the contraction and the pain seem stronger and stronger. But around 11 plus, the nurse check again, still 4cm. But I told her I got the urge to push, as it is very pain. Then the gynae ask the nurse to give me the induction drop. Then after putting that, within 5 minutes, it become 8cm dilated. Pain become even worse. As the gynae had not come yet, the nurse ask me not to push. The baby head had not come down yet.
Finally the gynae came, and the nurse ask me to push as much as I can. Within minutes, the baby come out already. Phew. luckily it is fast, as I dunno whether i can endure the pain for how long and whether i had the strength to push further.
After the baby come out, I feel very relieved and relax. And seeing the baby, everything seem to worth it, and the pain seem to be gone.
I feel that the baby is able to understand what we tell them. As I told him not to come out while brother is sick. The moment he is well again, then I start deliver. So talk to your baby more. Heehee.
He is quite obedient as of now. Seldom cry and sleep alot. Hence I got the time to rest and surf net now. But my milk supply is quite low. I try to pump but no milk out. My baby not really latch well and not sure he got drink anot. But seeing him got urine and output, should be okay. But I got introduce Formula milk for him as doctor say he got a bit jaundice. Had to make sure he got output and bring him to the sun every morning to prevent it to get worse.hence no choice but to let him drink Formula milk.
This time round, dun really feel pain after the delivery. Only eat one painkiller. Able to walk well , only feel pain when trying to sit down and stand out. Phew, else another torture.