Hi SYL,
Oh dear, maids nowadays so high class hor...
But you ask the maid to come 3mths prior to delivery means she got nothing much to do for 3mths loh? Now i got headache, cos end Jan is CNY and i wori the maid agency closes during that period. So either i must get the maid to come early jan or feb. Maybe you are right, better to get the maid to come earlier, so if not suitable, we got time to change....
My fren oso want to recommend me a very experienced maid, can cook and care for babies, but she's now working in a terrace hse and contract ends in Feb. I oso wori she too high class and wat if she plays me out and dun come in Feb. I oso wondered how come she wana leave the current employer, alot of (??)
I happened to know this CL 2 yrs ago in TMC. She gave me her number and i keep til now. Hope she's ok. Ya, we can't expect alot out of them since they are aunties and 'lao jiao' so they know how to manipulate us around. But urs is too much lah, ur maid is not her maid leh, how can expect ur maid to serve her, too much.
Hi RR,
Thank you
Actually my mum can cook and stay nearby, but i dun wana stress her as she got to care for my sis's 3 kids.
My MIL actually super free, cos she's housewife and my hubby is oni child. Everyday wake up late and watch DVD at home. But i think she's too pampered to care for my babies (she nvr take care of my hubby when he's a baby). Furthermore, she stay east, i stay north, hubby say if want her to come and supervise, must fetch her everytime, hiaz....where got time right??
Initially thot wana leave the babies at home with the maid. But i think the maid may not be able to cope, wat you think? you think the maid must need supervision?