Loh,
Ike was 3.85Kg , 51cm at birth, the USG only detected him as 3.2Kg so my gynae said usually the birth is bigger than USG size that is why need induced..
IMHO, to be godparents, the person needs to be wanting it.. cos its a responsibility when the parents (knock wood) cannot take care for long term, she/he/they must be able to take care or find a better solution.. so if the SIL dont wanna commit, better dont make them leee.. find someone who is willing.. Ike's godmother and future guardian is my sis , 2nd option is my best friend who used to be my flatmate for 7 years, she is also like a sister to us (me and my sis); my sis also appoint me and her as her children's god mothers..