kjaede
New Member
Hi
I just want to vent and wonder if any mummies out there had the same problem
I breastfed my first girl (now 8yo) for 3.5 years.
7 months exclusively before starting her on dairy-free solids. I had oversupply and even donated some of my EBM.
I made ice-popsicles, milk treats, ice cubes with my EBM.
She only had her first taste of FM at 14 months old.
I just had a baby boy early feb 2015.
I breastfed him right from the start and hoped to do the same for him as I did for my girl. He was discharged with mild jaundice after 1 day in hospital.
When he was 3 days old, he was hospitalised again for phototherapy and they fed him FM while I dropped EBM to the nursery 3 times a day. His levels dropped and he was discharged.
I returned to full breastfeeding and his jaundice levels skyrocketed again. When his levels reached almost 300 when he was 10 days old, the doctor said to try FM and stop breastfeeding for 24 hours.
To my surprise, his jaundice levels dropped by 50% on the next test and he was more alert and his eyes stopped turning yellow. The doctor did a check on my blood group and baby's blood group and said it is probably because our blood groups clashed.
After that, we decided to continue with 2 bottle feeds a day and breastmilk for the rest of the day. His levels continued to drop and now he is in the safe level.
I can't help but cry and feel guilty about not being able to breastfeed exclusively and give him the same goodness as what I did for my girl. I have cried.
The guilt is overbearing as I am a staunch believer in breastfeeding.
My husband has been very supportive but I have to get over my own mind. I feel it is my fault I cannot breastfeed him fully
Anyone faced the same problem with the blood group clash?
I just want to vent and wonder if any mummies out there had the same problem
I breastfed my first girl (now 8yo) for 3.5 years.
7 months exclusively before starting her on dairy-free solids. I had oversupply and even donated some of my EBM.
I made ice-popsicles, milk treats, ice cubes with my EBM.
She only had her first taste of FM at 14 months old.
I just had a baby boy early feb 2015.
I breastfed him right from the start and hoped to do the same for him as I did for my girl. He was discharged with mild jaundice after 1 day in hospital.
When he was 3 days old, he was hospitalised again for phototherapy and they fed him FM while I dropped EBM to the nursery 3 times a day. His levels dropped and he was discharged.
I returned to full breastfeeding and his jaundice levels skyrocketed again. When his levels reached almost 300 when he was 10 days old, the doctor said to try FM and stop breastfeeding for 24 hours.
To my surprise, his jaundice levels dropped by 50% on the next test and he was more alert and his eyes stopped turning yellow. The doctor did a check on my blood group and baby's blood group and said it is probably because our blood groups clashed.
After that, we decided to continue with 2 bottle feeds a day and breastmilk for the rest of the day. His levels continued to drop and now he is in the safe level.
I can't help but cry and feel guilty about not being able to breastfeed exclusively and give him the same goodness as what I did for my girl. I have cried.
The guilt is overbearing as I am a staunch believer in breastfeeding.
My husband has been very supportive but I have to get over my own mind. I feel it is my fault I cannot breastfeed him fully
Anyone faced the same problem with the blood group clash?