Purplerainbow
Member
Hi Ladies,
Just want to ask those who have already started ttc again. How do you prepare yourself mentally? I realized my hubby and I are putting a lot of hopes again and tend to feel disappointment when each month gives a negative. At the same time, I am also worried and scared at the same time. This feeling is a little uncontrollable sometimes.
Hi Sok Koon, I understand your feeling but please do us a favour, do not give urself so much stress, the negative indeed will give lot disappointment but there is a lot of thing is beyond our control. For me, I used to gv myself stress also but later I feel this should not be the way, hard to conceive is not our fault at all, i shld learn to let go and 放下. I know is not easy but I feel now my heart is calm and peace and I really take ttc journey more relax. Maybe find smthg which u and ur hubby interested with and enjoy the hobbies together. For me, I think religion helps to calm my mind.
I not sure is it your stress come from other people, but stress only make life more miserable, y not choose another way to face it and who know, mindset change, the relax mood will bring you good news. take sometime to adjust the mind, I believe u can do it! jiayou..