hi kris
to be frank, my first child also went to a quite good Infant care centre. good thing is, they learn socialize.. i wanted my son to go infant care cus i tot they get the best learning environment.. but bad thing is, ALWAYS sick! my son was sick practically every 2 weeks. got HFM, 3x bronchitis(in a period of 6mths), fever, flu ..
everyday i go, the medicine book is always full --as 90% of the children is sick and needs medication. i was so heart pain!!
FYI the turnover rate in infant care is extremely high!!!
my conclusion is, after weighing the plus and minus factor, the minus factor is a big concern.. i wouldn't want to sacrifice his health for some 'good learning environment'
so my second child onwards, no more infant care. in fact i dun see much difference when comes to learning things n socializing..
actually nanny is good as they can be more trustworthy compared to maids.. but nanny is abit expensive.. u can also consider hiring a good maid with experience and have you whole house built with camera.. (u can go sim lim --i got a quote about 6mths ago, whole 4rm with dome camera and a good recorder including installation is below $1k) ..so u can log on to view ur children anytime.. my friends all do that ... at least the maid dun misbehave...
afterall a maid can help u do housework n everythings...after work going home not so stress.. everything is in order..
just my 2 cents...