2WW - for those TTC-ing


Starwish said:
@PatChan hope u r ok now.. im takin 2 tabs daily per Dr's advice since aft IUI procedure till now.. I've a lot of yellowish clear cm think due to med coz nvr hav tat b4..

My daughter's bday coming but I still dare not hint her abt my preg.. think betta wait till aft 1st trim.. otherwise hard to explain if u get what I mean.. **cross fingers again**
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Yup Yup, I just went to gynae this noon. Doc say everything is fine. Ask me to continue to take the med.
 
my previous cycle also on medication to come but this cycle comes by itself and pathetic little and last for 3 days only..

my appt with kkh is on 30th oct.. im waitin for that day...
i suppose im waiting for AF although i am bd-ing every 2 days this cycle.. but got sperms no egg also no use.......

For KKH, i called to make appt and follow up from there... no sat appt... i always hope they have.....
i did all the tests and scans already...i got a referral from polyclinic so got subisdy.. min $34.. i think the highest is abt $160... scan is abt $80... HSG is also abt $80...
 
Beanie Peeps said:
my appt with kkh is on 30th oct.. im waitin for that day...
i suppose im waiting for AF although i am bd-ing every 2 days this cycle.. but got sperms no egg also no use.......

For KKH, i called to make appt and follow up from there... no sat appt... i always hope they have.....
i did all the tests and scans already...i got a referral from polyclinic so got subisdy.. min $34.. i think the highest is abt $160... scan is abt $80... HSG is also abt $80...
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icic.. so u just walk in to polyclinic n request for a referral? wah think I need to go and get referral first. we also bd every alt day n sometimes tired every 2-3 days but I scare no egg also no use n very tiring.. :(
 
Kittypinky said:
icic.. so u just walk in to polyclinic n request for a referral? wah think I need to go and get referral first. we also bd every alt day n sometimes tired every 2-3 days but I scare no egg also no use n very tiring.. :(
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ya..i also scare no egg...
ask for referral cos subsidy.. walk in no subsidy...and polyclinic get a nearer appt date than we call in....


PatChan said:
Yup Yup, I just went to gynae this noon. Doc say everything is fine. Ask me to continue to take the med.
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Pat, rest well and relax...
 
Kittypinky said:
hihi, wah u also same.. at least I know I'm not alone.. let's jiayou together! I wish either positive if not AF just come and we can try again.. instead of waiting game like this.. lol.. oh need to get refer? will it be cheaper? any idea there is sat appointment?
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Yes! Like I am not alone... cause seems like quite a num of ladies here hav graduate plus some have AF every month.
When we don't have AF everyday seems like 2ww. Test was negative each time... very sad...
My appt is on this coming Mon... hopefully can share with u what I went through... Most likely I would like to ask whether I have eggs or not? Am I ovulating? if not 3-5 days bd quite taxing. Hahaha...
 
Hi all! Im new here. Been ttc for the last 12 months but to no avail. Getting quite depressed over this. Tried many ways and means to get pregnant and I guess I will habe to see gynea now :( thought I could seek some support here.
 
veromon said:
Hi all! Im new here. Been ttc for the last 12 months but to no avail. Getting quite depressed over this. Tried many ways and means to get pregnant and I guess I will habe to see gynea now :( thought I could seek some support here.
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Hello!
Yes, do seek for professional advise. If u want subsidy, go to polyclinic n ask for referrer to KKH. Appt waiting time estimating time is 1 month.
 
veromon said:
Hi all! Im new here. Been ttc for the last 12 months but to no avail. Getting quite depressed over this. Tried many ways and means to get pregnant and I guess I will habe to see gynea now :( thought I could seek some support here.
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according to the book i read, 40% is due to men's problem.. not necessary is the women's fault...
so i went to buy home sperm test kit (as written in the book).. it only check the count though, not the mobility.. anyway i just buy for fun to test :p
 
Ya my hubby has been v supportive. Kept telling me not to blame myself. Im sick of waiting whwn everyone else keeps getting pregnant. Im so scared to tell ppl im trying... :( feels like im the only one who is taking so long... whr to get the sperm kit? :)
 
veromon said:
Ya my hubby has been v supportive. Kept telling me not to blame myself. Im sick of waiting whwn everyone else keeps getting pregnant. Im so scared to tell ppl im trying... :( feels like im the only one who is taking so long... whr to get the sperm kit? :)
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i got it online - USD39.99 at amazon
i still waiting for it to reach comgateway to know the shipping from USA to SG.. i guess is arnd $5

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Hi Veromon, u are not alone. Me too trying for #2 close to 3 yrs also no good news yet.
Is advisable to go for a pre-conception checkup with gynae after trying for a year or more.

Let Us Jiayou Together.
 
jesslim09 said:
Yes! Like I am not alone... cause seems like quite a num of ladies here hav graduate plus some have AF every month.
When we don't have AF everyday seems like 2ww. Test was negative each time... very sad...
My appt is on this coming Mon... hopefully can share with u what I went through... Most likely I would like to ask whether I have eggs or not? Am I ovulating? if not 3-5 days bd quite taxing. Hahaha...
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hihi, ya very sad one.. but try to be more positive.. great, pls share with me.. i still need to go polyclinic first.. :)
 
Beanie Peeps said:
ya..i also scare no egg...
ask for referral cos subsidy.. walk in no subsidy...and polyclinic get a nearer appt date than we call in....




Pat, rest well and relax...
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ok thanks.. i send an email to book appt and also asked about the rate, it start from $100++ for no referral.. so ex sia..
 
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maerceci & oceandeep78, how are things for you? I was reading more on ivf as I had attended their briefing & trying to be mentally prepared to go for ivf in Nov.... I only started to test O today. Yday had CW could I have miss testing O too late????
 
pixie ng said:
i got it online - USD39.99 at amazon
i still waiting for it to reach comgateway to know the shipping from USA to SG.. i guess is arnd $5

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US39.99 = SGD 50.90 than + shipping = 50.90+5 = $55.90
Physical test in SG cost $55 n result fastest out in 3 days.. (professional)
for this + shippin waiting time.. i think do it professionally and locally will be more worthy....
what if u do the wrong way than the $60 gone...
 
pixie ng said:
i got it online - USD39.99 at amazon
i still waiting for it to reach comgateway to know the shipping from USA to SG.. i guess is arnd $5

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Thanks Pixie. Ive fixed an appointment with KKH. Wanted to go via the polyclinic route but decided that I wont wanna wait further. really very sad to be ttc for so long with no results. Ive always been trying to prevent pregnancy only to know that it is so hard to conceive. :( really sad... really praying for a miracle. how long have you been ttcing?
 
veromon said:
Thanks Pixie. Ive fixed an appointment with KKH. Wanted to go via the polyclinic route but decided that I wont wanna wait further. really very sad to be ttc for so long with no results. Ive always been trying to prevent pregnancy only to know that it is so hard to conceive. :( really sad... really praying for a miracle. how long have you been ttcing?
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10months...
 
Beanie Peeps said:
US39.99 = SGD 50.90 than + shipping = 50.90+5 = $55.90
Physical test in SG cost $55 n result fastest out in 3 days.. (professional)
for this + shippin waiting time.. i think do it professionally and locally will be more worthy....
what if u do the wrong way than the $60 gone...
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really? sperm test in SG cost $55 nia! that's cheap lei
 
Beanie Peeps said:
yes.. kkh referred my hb for the test.. only $55.....
my fren refer to Novena Specialist at opp TTSH.. She told me was $65 + 7% GST...
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Yes my hb did at nuh... we are private patient... 60 plus I think. Not worth to buy the one at Amazon. Go to the dr and get more reassurance.
 
veromon said:
Thanks Pixie. Ive fixed an appointment with KKH. Wanted to go via the polyclinic route but decided that I wont wanna wait further. really very sad to be ttc for so long with no results. Ive always been trying to prevent pregnancy only to know that it is so hard to conceive. :( really sad... really praying for a miracle. how long have you been ttcing?
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Hi veromon. Just to share i also thought the same way as u. All my tests in nuh as a pvte patient cost over 1k. So if u find that expensive, u shud consider going via referral. The subsidies are very substantial. With referral u will only pay a few hundred max. And the tests that I did are very basic hsg test and blood tests...
 
bubbleblue1 said:
maerceci & oceandeep78, how are things for you? I was reading more on ivf as I had attended their briefing & trying to be mentally prepared to go for ivf in Nov.... I only started to test O today. Yday had CW could I have miss testing O too late????
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Bubbleblue jiayou for ur ivf! Do share ur experience after u go thru cuz I will probably do it also if my iui fails.
 
Babe12 said:
Hi Veromon, u are not alone. Me too trying for #2 close to 3 yrs also no good news yet.
Is advisable to go for a pre-conception checkup with gynae after trying for a year or more.

Let Us Jiayou Together.
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Do go for testing. I also have a #1 who is 16 mths old. We got her within two tries. Then recently my hb went to do SA, diagnosed as having really bad sperm. Dr gave us 4-5% chance only of conceive naturally. Life is really unpredictable.
 
Hi ladies,

I just went to see dr on last wed, thought of seeing for IVF since my last clomid cycle failed. But the dr in Kkh doesn't suggest ivf for me despite knowing that I already had tried on clomid for 7 cycles of clomid. He is letting me to try on Letrozle. Any ladies tried on this before? Care to share..
 
PreciousBeanie said:
Hi ladies,

I just went to see dr on last wed, thought of seeing for IVF since my last clomid cycle failed. But the dr in Kkh doesn't suggest ivf for me despite knowing that I already had tried on clomid for 7 cycles of clomid. He is letting me to try on Letrozle. Any ladies tried on this before? Care to share..
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pat pat preciousbeanie..
7 cycles... i tot clomid can only hv 3 cycles... how many mg u take for clomid? do u O?
 
bubbleblue1 said:
maerceci & oceandeep78, how are things for you? I was reading more on ivf as I had attended their briefing & trying to be mentally prepared to go for ivf in Nov.... I only started to test O today. Yday had CW could I have miss testing O too late????
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Hi hi bubbleblue1,
Feeling quite lousy because seems many obstacles to my ttc. Since I went for my AFC scan in early September, I do not have the full details of my scan result as appointment with doc is in November only. Wanted to get an earlier appointment but doc on leave. To cut the story short, I managed to check with the nurse recently n was told my FSH level is High @9.7.
I have plans for IVF but happening next year only! Not able to detect my O this cycle too. Hey, all the best for your upcoming IVF!!
 
Beanie Peeps said:
im still in 50mg n 2nd cycle.. but no o :(
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Maybe u want to check with ur dr see if wanna do follicle tracking on ur next cycle. Ur dr will do scan to check if ur follicle response to clomid, then when he think the size of the follicle is big enough for O, he can give u a injection to stimulate O.
 
PreciousBeanie said:
Maybe u want to check with ur dr see if wanna do follicle tracking on ur next cycle. Ur dr will do scan to check if ur follicle response to clomid, then when he think the size of the follicle is big enough for O, he can give u a injection to stimulate O.
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huh injection.. *scare* lolz..
i will talk to her abt it.. counting down to 30th... 10q preciousbeanie..
 
Good morning, ladies! I am so moody. :(

Today is DPIUI 12. I have little spotting yesterday. I think my menses gg to cum soon.

Haiz...why izzit so hard...
 
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twinkletot said:
Good morning, ladies! I am so moody. :(

Today is DPIUI 11. I have little spotting yesterday. I think my menses gg to cum soon.

Haiz...why izzit so hard...
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Jiayou twinkle. I feel your pain. Im already 3 days late but still bfn. If im not preggy id rather af reports. :( took bby and am 36.9 this morning.

And hey you ate spotting? Maybe inplantation bleeding?
 
Hi i was also on clomid 1st cycle and was given 50mg but the cycle failed as no dominant follicle was found. And doc prescribe me with.150mg for my next cycle,should i listen to doctor and take 150mg or try 100mg first.
 
Hi sisters of TTC-ing. I am a Aug mommy who gave birth in Jul cos my fluid was low and I had high blood pressure throughout my pregnancy. So at 37 weeks 5 days. My gyane decided to deliver her. She is a happy soon to be 3 months baby. I am 33 this year.

Here is my story:

We waited 6 years for this rainbow baby. 1 blighted ovum (got sac no baby) 4 years ago and 1 chemical pregnancy (2 yrs ago). My both pregnancy from joy to misery in 14 days. I tot I can never have a child of my own anymore.

During these 6 years. We tried natural and opk. I am a lazy person. So BBT is out. And like many couples out there. We r not active. Not we find each other unattractive but we r just not those diam diam BD couple. Lol. Our rate is like 1 mth twice is a bonus. Sounds silly when we wanted a child and yet we don't BD as much should we do it. When I see red every mth. I blamed myself. Why didn't I persistent. I cried every mth. I cannot take it that ppl around me telling me they r pregnant. I once hit my womb consistently crying to a useless womb. My hub have to stop me from hurting myself. I always ask God. What have I done to deserve to be childless? Why can't I keep my baby? What can I do to be a mom? I am a Buddhism. I pray to many gods at many temples. Went through a ritual becos even god says I very difficult to conceive. Even god says that. Whats there for me anymore? I really don't know.

Hubby was supportive throughout the year. Although he wanted to try again after my first miscarriage. I am too afraid of failure and was not ready. It took me 4 yrs to walk into TTC again and to lead up to another miscarriage. My two losses. They will always be in my heart. After the second miscarriage I told myself.. if its meant to be mine.. its mine. I shouted out loud to god.. if u decided to give me a baby.. make sure he/she stays this time. Stop giving me hope and take it away.

Every year CNY becomes a drag to me.. my answer to my relative. . 生不出。 没当妈妈的名。 I was so sick and tired of replying to whoever telling/asking me.. go have a baby. Why still no news? Even my ah ma tells my sister to give birth and pass the baby to me to raise. This was how bad it is. Cannot blame her.. 6 yrs nothing. Old folks are like that. I hate attending bb shower.

I went to gyane and check on my womb and eggs .. everything is fine. I did not do sperm check for hub becos I don't wanna crush him if problem really lies on him. I just take it I am the problem one. So gyane suggested ivf. No offends to IVF but to me.. I want my baby to be made out of love and natural.. I tell myself. Although I miscarriage but it proven that I can conceive. Just that I cannot prolong the stage pass week 7. 怀孕容易守孕难。 I have regular menses with a 32 days cycle.

So we just do it out of love. One mth probably twice. I know ttc rules.. bd as much as possible. We just don't have the energy. OpK from hope becomes a chore. Hubby was cooperative. But I just no mood. Test and test and O so what? Menses still keep knocking every mth. I threw away all my OPK. And tell hub.. we have we have..we don't we have each other.

Last yr Nov. We did it only twice that mth. My last menses was 24 Oct. And I still can tell my hub... arh.. this mth we so slack.. try harder dec ok? He answered me ok with a big smile. I didn't do anything. Just BD and raise my butt and never leave the bed till morning thats all. No oPK.. no BBT. Ppl says just need one shot to hit the jackpot. . I am hoping every mth that BD is that shot to success.

On 25 Nov.. I missed my menses.. not surprised as usually my menses will arrive probably 1 week after the date .. or probably I am stress at work.. I am a egg lover.. must eat eggs almost every day.. so on 27 Nov.. I ate eggs and suddenly I feel disgusted. I was like.. hmmmmm.. am I? The next day. I took a pregnancy strip and tested. Faint positive. I cannot believe my eyes.. and the tot of chemical pregnancy comes into my mind. Its really faint. I keep quiet and didn't tell hub. I tell myself I am going to face this on my own. I don't want my hub to have hope yet. So two days later. I tested again and its a positive. I went and got myself a digital and confirm pregnancy at week 2-3. I showed hub. We didn't jump in joy. We both are scare. So I keep it very low. I know if a pregnancy is successful is to see a heart beat. My last two didn't even go into the stage to have a fetus pole.. so I tell my tummy. . If u decided to stay.. don't let me see red. I booked gyane for a 3 weeks later slot.

True enough. I see gynae on week 8. I am determined to see heartbeat. I was lying down and I closed my eyes. My gynae was with me on my last miscarriage. I told her.. I am not going to see the monitor unless its good news. I made my gynae super gan cheong. Lol.. she scanned and she asked me to open my eyes.. I refused. She finally shouted. Open to see your baby! I saw a flickering and my gyane told me its the heartbeat. I cried. Finally. . I passed the test. It was emotional. To cut the story. . I gave birth to my baby girl.. I have a smooth pregnancy throughout. Just nausea from week 9 to week 17. Then I sail through. Baby arrived on 23 Jul when her edd is 8 Aug.

Sorry for this lengthy post.. I want to let all sisters know.. u r not alone and please don't blame urself. How many children and when we r having children is already determined by fate. As long u keep the faith and hope. . I am sure u r going to be a mommy one day. Just need that day to arrive.. like many says.. 天时地利人和。 once its time.. I am sure bb will come. For those who are constantly testing and testing ur body.. give urself a good break. Like 2 mths nothing. . Just BD out of love.. maybe that helps.. mine did.. although last time ppl always tell me that the moment u give up.. it comes.. I will always find that sentence very skeptical. But guess what.. it happens to me.

Baby dust to all of u here and I will be TTC in 2 yrs for my second one and this time I will leave it to god too.
 
shirleyten said:
Hi sisters of TTC-ing. I am a Aug mommy who gave birth in Jul cos my fluid was low and I had high blood pressure throughout my pregnancy. So at 37 weeks 5 days. My gyane decided to deliver her. She is a happy soon to be 3 months baby. I am 33 this year.

Here is my story:

We waited 6 years for this rainbow baby. 1 blighted ovum (got sac no baby) 4 years ago and 1 chemical pregnancy (2 yrs ago). My both pregnancy from joy to misery in 14 days. I tot I can never have a child of my own anymore.

During these 6 years. We tried natural and opk. I am a lazy person. So BBT is out. And like many couples out there. We r not active. Not we find each other unattractive but we r just not those diam diam BD couple. Lol. Our rate is like 1 mth twice is a bonus. Sounds silly when we wanted a child and yet we don't BD as much should we do it. When I see red every mth. I blamed myself. Why didn't I persistent. I cried every mth. I cannot take it that ppl around me telling me they r pregnant. I once hit my womb consistently crying to a useless womb. My hub have to stop me from hurting myself. I always ask God. What have I done to deserve to be childless? Why can't I keep my baby? What can I do to be a mom? I am a Buddhism. I pray to many gods at many temples. Went through a ritual becos even god says I very difficult to conceive. Even god says that. Whats there for me anymore? I really don't know.

Hubby was supportive throughout the year. Although he wanted to try again after my first miscarriage. I am too afraid of failure and was not ready. It took me 4 yrs to walk into TTC again and to lead up to another miscarriage. My two losses. They will always be in my heart. After the second miscarriage I told myself.. if its meant to be mine.. its mine. I shouted out loud to god.. if u decided to give me a baby.. make sure he/she stays this time. Stop giving me hope and take it away.

Every year CNY becomes a drag to me.. my answer to my relative. . 生不出。 没当妈妈的名。 I was so sick and tired of replying to whoever telling/asking me.. go have a baby. Why still no news? Even my ah ma tells my sister to give birth and pass the baby to me to raise. This was how bad it is. Cannot blame her.. 6 yrs nothing. Old folks are like that. I hate attending bb shower.

I went to gyane and check on my womb and eggs .. everything is fine. I did not do sperm check for hub becos I don't wanna crush him if problem really lies on him. I just take it I am the problem one. So gyane suggested ivf. No offends to IVF but to me.. I want my baby to be made out of love and natural.. I tell myself. Although I miscarriage but it proven that I can conceive. Just that I cannot prolong the stage pass week 7. 怀孕容易守孕难。 I have regular menses with a 32 days cycle.

So we just do it out of love. One mth probably twice. I know ttc rules.. bd as much as possible. We just don't have the energy. OpK from hope becomes a chore. Hubby was cooperative. But I just no mood. Test and test and O so what? Menses still keep knocking every mth. I threw away all my OPK. And tell hub.. we have we have..we don't we have each other.

Last yr Nov. We did it only twice that mth. My last menses was 24 Oct. And I still can tell my hub... arh.. this mth we so slack.. try harder dec ok? He answered me ok with a big smile. I didn't do anything. Just BD and raise my butt and never leave the bed till morning thats all. No oPK.. no BBT. Ppl says just need one shot to hit the jackpot. . I am hoping every mth that BD is that shot to success.

On 25 Nov.. I missed my menses.. not surprised as usually my menses will arrive probably 1 week after the date .. or probably I am stress at work.. I am a egg lover.. must eat eggs almost every day.. so on 27 Nov.. I ate eggs and suddenly I feel disgusted. I was like.. hmmmmm.. am I? The next day. I took a pregnancy strip and tested. Faint positive. I cannot believe my eyes.. and the tot of chemical pregnancy comes into my mind. Its really faint. I keep quiet and didn't tell hub. I tell myself I am going to face this on my own. I don't want my hub to have hope yet. So two days later. I tested again and its a positive. I went and got myself a digital and confirm pregnancy at week 2-3. I showed hub. We didn't jump in joy. We both are scare. So I keep it very low. I know if a pregnancy is successful is to see a heart beat. My last two didn't even go into the stage to have a fetus pole.. so I tell my tummy. . If u decided to stay.. don't let me see red. I booked gyane for a 3 weeks later slot.

True enough. I see gynae on week 8. I am determined to see heartbeat. I was lying down and I closed my eyes. My gynae was with me on my last miscarriage. I told her.. I am not going to see the monitor unless its good news. I made my gynae super gan cheong. Lol.. she scanned and she asked me to open my eyes.. I refused. She finally shouted. Open to see your baby! I saw a flickering and my gyane told me its the heartbeat. I cried. Finally. . I passed the test. It was emotional. To cut the story. . I gave birth to my baby girl.. I have a smooth pregnancy throughout. Just nausea from week 9 to week 17. Then I sail through. Baby arrived on 23 Jul when her edd is 8 Aug.

Sorry for this lengthy post.. I want to let all sisters know.. u r not alone and please don't blame urself. How many children and when we r having children is already determined by fate. As long u keep the faith and hope. . I am sure u r going to be a mommy one day. Just need that day to arrive.. like many says.. 天时地利人和。 once its time.. I am sure bb will come. For those who are constantly testing and testing ur body.. give urself a good break. Like 2 mths nothing. . Just BD out of love.. maybe that helps.. mine did.. although last time ppl always tell me that the moment u give up.. it comes.. I will always find that sentence very skeptical. But guess what.. it happens to me.

Baby dust to all of u here and I will be TTC in 2 yrs for my second one and this time I will leave it to god too.
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Very touching and encouraging post. Perhaps I'm at a very emotional stage now, half way thru reading it I can feel my tears in my eyes...
 
shirleyten said:
Hi sisters of TTC-ing. I am a Aug mommy who gave birth in Jul cos my fluid was low and I had high blood pressure throughout my pregnancy. So at 37 weeks 5 days. My gyane decided to deliver her. She is a happy soon to be 3 months baby. I am 33 this year.

Here is my story:

We waited 6 years for this rainbow baby. 1 blighted ovum (got sac no baby) 4 years ago and 1 chemical pregnancy (2 yrs ago). My both pregnancy from joy to misery in 14 days. I tot I can never have a child of my own anymore.

During these 6 years. We tried natural and opk. I am a lazy person. So BBT is out. And like many couples out there. We r not active. Not we find each other unattractive but we r just not those diam diam BD couple. Lol. Our rate is like 1 mth twice is a bonus. Sounds silly when we wanted a child and yet we don't BD as much should we do it. When I see red every mth. I blamed myself. Why didn't I persistent. I cried every mth. I cannot take it that ppl around me telling me they r pregnant. I once hit my womb consistently crying to a useless womb. My hub have to stop me from hurting myself. I always ask God. What have I done to deserve to be childless? Why can't I keep my baby? What can I do to be a mom? I am a Buddhism. I pray to many gods at many temples. Went through a ritual becos even god says I very difficult to conceive. Even god says that. Whats there for me anymore? I really don't know.

Hubby was supportive throughout the year. Although he wanted to try again after my first miscarriage. I am too afraid of failure and was not ready. It took me 4 yrs to walk into TTC again and to lead up to another miscarriage. My two losses. They will always be in my heart. After the second miscarriage I told myself.. if its meant to be mine.. its mine. I shouted out loud to god.. if u decided to give me a baby.. make sure he/she stays this time. Stop giving me hope and take it away.

Every year CNY becomes a drag to me.. my answer to my relative. . 生不出。 没当妈妈的名。 I was so sick and tired of replying to whoever telling/asking me.. go have a baby. Why still no news? Even my ah ma tells my sister to give birth and pass the baby to me to raise. This was how bad it is. Cannot blame her.. 6 yrs nothing. Old folks are like that. I hate attending bb shower.

I went to gyane and check on my womb and eggs .. everything is fine. I did not do sperm check for hub becos I don't wanna crush him if problem really lies on him. I just take it I am the problem one. So gyane suggested ivf. No offends to IVF but to me.. I want my baby to be made out of love and natural.. I tell myself. Although I miscarriage but it proven that I can conceive. Just that I cannot prolong the stage pass week 7. 怀孕容易守孕难。 I have regular menses with a 32 days cycle.

So we just do it out of love. One mth probably twice. I know ttc rules.. bd as much as possible. We just don't have the energy. OpK from hope becomes a chore. Hubby was cooperative. But I just no mood. Test and test and O so what? Menses still keep knocking every mth. I threw away all my OPK. And tell hub.. we have we have..we don't we have each other.

Last yr Nov. We did it only twice that mth. My last menses was 24 Oct. And I still can tell my hub... arh.. this mth we so slack.. try harder dec ok? He answered me ok with a big smile. I didn't do anything. Just BD and raise my butt and never leave the bed till morning thats all. No oPK.. no BBT. Ppl says just need one shot to hit the jackpot. . I am hoping every mth that BD is that shot to success.

On 25 Nov.. I missed my menses.. not surprised as usually my menses will arrive probably 1 week after the date .. or probably I am stress at work.. I am a egg lover.. must eat eggs almost every day.. so on 27 Nov.. I ate eggs and suddenly I feel disgusted. I was like.. hmmmmm.. am I? The next day. I took a pregnancy strip and tested. Faint positive. I cannot believe my eyes.. and the tot of chemical pregnancy comes into my mind. Its really faint. I keep quiet and didn't tell hub. I tell myself I am going to face this on my own. I don't want my hub to have hope yet. So two days later. I tested again and its a positive. I went and got myself a digital and confirm pregnancy at week 2-3. I showed hub. We didn't jump in joy. We both are scare. So I keep it very low. I know if a pregnancy is successful is to see a heart beat. My last two didn't even go into the stage to have a fetus pole.. so I tell my tummy. . If u decided to stay.. don't let me see red. I booked gyane for a 3 weeks later slot.

True enough. I see gynae on week 8. I am determined to see heartbeat. I was lying down and I closed my eyes. My gynae was with me on my last miscarriage. I told her.. I am not going to see the monitor unless its good news. I made my gynae super gan cheong. Lol.. she scanned and she asked me to open my eyes.. I refused. She finally shouted. Open to see your baby! I saw a flickering and my gyane told me its the heartbeat. I cried. Finally. . I passed the test. It was emotional. To cut the story. . I gave birth to my baby girl.. I have a smooth pregnancy throughout. Just nausea from week 9 to week 17. Then I sail through. Baby arrived on 23 Jul when her edd is 8 Aug.

Sorry for this lengthy post.. I want to let all sisters know.. u r not alone and please don't blame urself. How many children and when we r having children is already determined by fate. As long u keep the faith and hope. . I am sure u r going to be a mommy one day. Just need that day to arrive.. like many says.. 天时地利人和。 once its time.. I am sure bb will come. For those who are constantly testing and testing ur body.. give urself a good break. Like 2 mths nothing. . Just BD out of love.. maybe that helps.. mine did.. although last time ppl always tell me that the moment u give up.. it comes.. I will always find that sentence very skeptical. But guess what.. it happens to me.

Baby dust to all of u here and I will be TTC in 2 yrs for my second one and this time I will leave it to god too.
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Thank you for your encouragement! I really need this at this stage of life.
 

shirleyten said:
Hi sisters of TTC-ing. I am a Aug mommy who gave birth in Jul cos my fluid was low and I had high blood pressure throughout my pregnancy. So at 37 weeks 5 days. My gyane decided to deliver her. She is a happy soon to be 3 months baby. I am 33 this year.

Here is my story:

We waited 6 years for this rainbow baby. 1 blighted ovum (got sac no baby) 4 years ago and 1 chemical pregnancy (2 yrs ago). My both pregnancy from joy to misery in 14 days. I tot I can never have a child of my own anymore.

During these 6 years. We tried natural and opk. I am a lazy person. So BBT is out. And like many couples out there. We r not active. Not we find each other unattractive but we r just not those diam diam BD couple. Lol. Our rate is like 1 mth twice is a bonus. Sounds silly when we wanted a child and yet we don't BD as much should we do it. When I see red every mth. I blamed myself. Why didn't I persistent. I cried every mth. I cannot take it that ppl around me telling me they r pregnant. I once hit my womb consistently crying to a useless womb. My hub have to stop me from hurting myself. I always ask God. What have I done to deserve to be childless? Why can't I keep my baby? What can I do to be a mom? I am a Buddhism. I pray to many gods at many temples. Went through a ritual becos even god says I very difficult to conceive. Even god says that. Whats there for me anymore? I really don't know.

Hubby was supportive throughout the year. Although he wanted to try again after my first miscarriage. I am too afraid of failure and was not ready. It took me 4 yrs to walk into TTC again and to lead up to another miscarriage. My two losses. They will always be in my heart. After the second miscarriage I told myself.. if its meant to be mine.. its mine. I shouted out loud to god.. if u decided to give me a baby.. make sure he/she stays this time. Stop giving me hope and take it away.

Every year CNY becomes a drag to me.. my answer to my relative. . 生不出。 没当妈妈的名。 I was so sick and tired of replying to whoever telling/asking me.. go have a baby. Why still no news? Even my ah ma tells my sister to give birth and pass the baby to me to raise. This was how bad it is. Cannot blame her.. 6 yrs nothing. Old folks are like that. I hate attending bb shower.

I went to gyane and check on my womb and eggs .. everything is fine. I did not do sperm check for hub becos I don't wanna crush him if problem really lies on him. I just take it I am the problem one. So gyane suggested ivf. No offends to IVF but to me.. I want my baby to be made out of love and natural.. I tell myself. Although I miscarriage but it proven that I can conceive. Just that I cannot prolong the stage pass week 7. 怀孕容易守孕难。 I have regular menses with a 32 days cycle.

So we just do it out of love. One mth probably twice. I know ttc rules.. bd as much as possible. We just don't have the energy. OpK from hope becomes a chore. Hubby was cooperative. But I just no mood. Test and test and O so what? Menses still keep knocking every mth. I threw away all my OPK. And tell hub.. we have we have..we don't we have each other.

Last yr Nov. We did it only twice that mth. My last menses was 24 Oct. And I still can tell my hub... arh.. this mth we so slack.. try harder dec ok? He answered me ok with a big smile. I didn't do anything. Just BD and raise my butt and never leave the bed till morning thats all. No oPK.. no BBT. Ppl says just need one shot to hit the jackpot. . I am hoping every mth that BD is that shot to success.

On 25 Nov.. I missed my menses.. not surprised as usually my menses will arrive probably 1 week after the date .. or probably I am stress at work.. I am a egg lover.. must eat eggs almost every day.. so on 27 Nov.. I ate eggs and suddenly I feel disgusted. I was like.. hmmmmm.. am I? The next day. I took a pregnancy strip and tested. Faint positive. I cannot believe my eyes.. and the tot of chemical pregnancy comes into my mind. Its really faint. I keep quiet and didn't tell hub. I tell myself I am going to face this on my own. I don't want my hub to have hope yet. So two days later. I tested again and its a positive. I went and got myself a digital and confirm pregnancy at week 2-3. I showed hub. We didn't jump in joy. We both are scare. So I keep it very low. I know if a pregnancy is successful is to see a heart beat. My last two didn't even go into the stage to have a fetus pole.. so I tell my tummy. . If u decided to stay.. don't let me see red. I booked gyane for a 3 weeks later slot.

True enough. I see gynae on week 8. I am determined to see heartbeat. I was lying down and I closed my eyes. My gynae was with me on my last miscarriage. I told her.. I am not going to see the monitor unless its good news. I made my gynae super gan cheong. Lol.. she scanned and she asked me to open my eyes.. I refused. She finally shouted. Open to see your baby! I saw a flickering and my gyane told me its the heartbeat. I cried. Finally. . I passed the test. It was emotional. To cut the story. . I gave birth to my baby girl.. I have a smooth pregnancy throughout. Just nausea from week 9 to week 17. Then I sail through. Baby arrived on 23 Jul when her edd is 8 Aug.

Sorry for this lengthy post.. I want to let all sisters know.. u r not alone and please don't blame urself. How many children and when we r having children is already determined by fate. As long u keep the faith and hope. . I am sure u r going to be a mommy one day. Just need that day to arrive.. like many says.. 天时地利人和。 once its time.. I am sure bb will come. For those who are constantly testing and testing ur body.. give urself a good break. Like 2 mths nothing. . Just BD out of love.. maybe that helps.. mine did.. although last time ppl always tell me that the moment u give up.. it comes.. I will always find that sentence very skeptical. But guess what.. it happens to me.

Baby dust to all of u here and I will be TTC in 2 yrs for my second one and this time I will leave it to god too.
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Thanks for sharing...
I felt so touched after reading...
Ur story encourage me!
Jus like u i hate to attend bb shower, CNY n wedding invites..

Jus hope one day the day is ready im fated to see + on my preg kit!
 
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