Emily, I agree with the ladies here. If you need a TCM who can patiently explain your situation to u, maybe see another TCM
like what the other ladies here say, TTC journey is already stressful and like emotional roller coaster at times , we don't need to suffer craps from those TCM/dr who jus doesn't sound empathetic enough.. Ladies here will be able to suggest a few nice and patient TCM who can patiently explain your body condition to u
I'm seeing Dr Su at Bukit batok now with my hubby cos I really need a TCM who can patiently explain to me about my body condition. Throughout my 6 months of seeing tsb , though she sees me and is chatty , but never once has she explain about my body condition .. She jus briefly say that my body is okie .. Given her moodiness sometimes, I was wondering if I should bring hubby to see her? Cos I don't want my hubby to have a negative impression about TCM. Due to my Taiwan trip, I miss my appointment with tsb and got to know the next appointment will be rescheduled to august! Such a long wait. I didn't wanna wait that long. Happened that my hubby's colleague also recommend dr Su, so we decided to see dr us together. And guess what? I really like Dr Su!
she is nice and will explain my body condition to me patiently .. Basically I have this "not enough blood" issues and sluggish blood circulation that she said need to tiao first .. After that she gave me medication to tiao my body .. As for hubby, she said his male "Qi" not so good, which may affect sperm motility. So far he has taken two weeks of medication. Yesterday we went back to see her and she said that his condition has improved but need to continue to tiao. To me, whether or not I'll get a bfp , at least I know it is a time we can tiao our body well. I know I won't bfp so fast but I'm learning to tell myself to be patient .. Tough at times to see red every month, but to keep my sanity , I need to distract myself from TTC and life still goes on.. Exercise and eat healthily .. If it comes, it will come.
So Emily, if you want, change another TCM .. Give yourself sometimes and I believe you will see rainbow soon!
life is beautiful .. Here is a big hug specially for you!