Hi mummies,
Anyone here went to Legal Aid Burea (LAB) for divorcing aids before?
I'm currently pregnant with my no.2 and my no.1 just turned 1 yrs old not long ago.
Both me and my hubby are only 22yrs old this year. And we got married for only 2 years.
I have been in a dilemma whatever to file a divorce with my hubby anot, cause there's way too many conflicts between us already.
We couldn't communicate like last time before I had my no.1, we quarrel often and sometimes even treat each other as transparent at home not talking to each other for more then 5 sentence.
Things got so bad few months ago after he started hanging out with his bunch of friends, who thought him how to gamble even thou I know he does gamble but it's only during special occasions like CNY or maybe the football seasons.
But soon he got into huge debts and now he can't even afford to pay my hospital bills whenever I visit the gynae. EverythIng was paid by his working mum.
Things got worse after that, he started drinking every night and even sort of havIng an affaire outside.
We quarrelled so badly that I wanted a divorce, in the end he beg me and say sorry. And told me that he and that lady really nothing happen, and I choose to go back is because of my kid.
Thou my mouth say I forgive but deep down I know I couldn't, and I guess our feelIngs is really fading away ever since this incident.
And he is always holding on to his phone even when he sleeps, he put his phOne inside the pillow case. And he is always so secretive about it, I asked him a few times but he kept saying that he is afraid that his office calls him and all sorts of rubbish.
I'm really sick and tired of this kind of unhealthy marriage.