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I am married for 1.5 years. My hubby has a routine annual holiday with his group of polytechnic classmates. He has a china classmate who like to threaten or verbally challenge him to do silly things. I personally do not like this china guy name Wang Wu Hai (works in LTA)
The annual holidays is in the 2nd year and will be plan to the needs of this selfish china guy. Itinerary, dates of travel, modes of transport will be planned by him. Normally, I will not join in as December is a peak period for my audit work. Things get out of hand when this china guy introduced in this lady name Cheryl. Cheryl is from Malaysia and she is 25 years old. She is an Admin clerk in a tuition agency in Woodlands area.
From Day 1, Cheryl knew that my hubby is married. She has interest in my hubby and will personally text my hubby to chit chat. My hubby has make known to her that he is married and they are just travel acquaintance in this group. (My hubby showed me the WhatsApp text he replied to Cheryl).
Now, this China guy is planning for a Korea trip this July. My hubby's part time university course starts at the same time. My hubby rejected the holiday trip invitation and the china guy flared up and threatened my hubby that the whole group will not travel again if my hubby never joins in. (What is this?)
Here comes the big problem. This china guy tried to match make my hubby with Cheryl. Cheryl has pin high hopes on my hubby. Last trip in last December 2024, Cheryl even touched my hubby and offer to massage him n company him for lunch daily (My hubby and Cheryl works in the same area).
When my hubby confide in me, I was shocked. I advice my hubby to cut off the travel plans with the group and avoid contacts with the China Guy - Wu Hai and seductress - Cheryl. Don't they believe in Karma by doing such bad stuff? They don't know what is call Moral Values?
I am shocked and this is causing strain in our friendships and also our own family. How can a good male friend who knows my hubby is married and yet try to match make him? How can Cheryl still seduce my hubby when my hubby made it clear to her. She has been sending tonnes and tonnes of message to my hubby. Even when I stepped in, Cheryl still so domineering.
What can I do?
I am married for 1.5 years. My hubby has a routine annual holiday with his group of polytechnic classmates. He has a china classmate who like to threaten or verbally challenge him to do silly things. I personally do not like this china guy name Wang Wu Hai (works in LTA)
The annual holidays is in the 2nd year and will be plan to the needs of this selfish china guy. Itinerary, dates of travel, modes of transport will be planned by him. Normally, I will not join in as December is a peak period for my audit work. Things get out of hand when this china guy introduced in this lady name Cheryl. Cheryl is from Malaysia and she is 25 years old. She is an Admin clerk in a tuition agency in Woodlands area.
From Day 1, Cheryl knew that my hubby is married. She has interest in my hubby and will personally text my hubby to chit chat. My hubby has make known to her that he is married and they are just travel acquaintance in this group. (My hubby showed me the WhatsApp text he replied to Cheryl).
Now, this China guy is planning for a Korea trip this July. My hubby's part time university course starts at the same time. My hubby rejected the holiday trip invitation and the china guy flared up and threatened my hubby that the whole group will not travel again if my hubby never joins in. (What is this?)
Here comes the big problem. This china guy tried to match make my hubby with Cheryl. Cheryl has pin high hopes on my hubby. Last trip in last December 2024, Cheryl even touched my hubby and offer to massage him n company him for lunch daily (My hubby and Cheryl works in the same area).
When my hubby confide in me, I was shocked. I advice my hubby to cut off the travel plans with the group and avoid contacts with the China Guy - Wu Hai and seductress - Cheryl. Don't they believe in Karma by doing such bad stuff? They don't know what is call Moral Values?
I am shocked and this is causing strain in our friendships and also our own family. How can a good male friend who knows my hubby is married and yet try to match make him? How can Cheryl still seduce my hubby when my hubby made it clear to her. She has been sending tonnes and tonnes of message to my hubby. Even when I stepped in, Cheryl still so domineering.
What can I do?
