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Ladies here, if u are not firm w your hubby, then live with it for the rest of your life! If your hubby truly loves you and baby, he will change. Not forgetting there is still a large group of men here who are " stereo type" n thinks that wives are subordinates to them, must listen to them, do...

Hi I was in similar situation before. I tried all kinds of things. Ha... New mummies here, my advice: if u want to take no pay leave, take one full year. If ur connect plan is next year n condition is u serve one full year this year, then after your no pay leave, say 3 months, then ur connect...

It's difficult to explain here. Go Intranet to read for details. Connect plan takes into account your years of actual service, promotions n payout dates etc. Everybody is different. You will get your supposed payout, balance kept with moe. If u resign, all balance will be forfeited, like...

You can consider taking one year off to look after your kid n have another one during this time, provided your family finances permits. I really regret not having second one while on leave, cos at that time, thought I can wait n have no 2 when I go back to work. Reality is not the case.....You...

From birth, I took 2 years leave cos i didnt want to miss any of her milestones. Then I went back to work n my mother helped me to look after her. She started to attend classes n her learning was slow. My pediatrician told me first 5 years of cognitive development is very impt so I took one more...

Hi blessed, The period that u are on no pay leave is not considered to be in service. So total years of service means years that you were actually working. I am quitting and going to be flexible adjunct in 2011 term 2. My principal did advised me against it cos of the paycut. But I am not...

My girl is now 6 years old. My hus n I took so long to reach "this stage". We didn't hv sex for 6 yrs. Who will believe? Actually I am very stressed n sad. Everybody has been asking when I am going to hv no.2, age gap bet the kids getting bigger, my hus n I both getting older etc. But I am...

Thanks baby Paige. Natashawan, My hubby cannot enter fully. Just a bit. Usually he will just lie there n I will try to move in. When I am wet, it's easy. No pain at all, but muscles very tight. So I will do it super slow. Move n stop, move n stop. If very very tight, I will end it n try...

I dare not insert q tip or dilators. Even when I bought e pack of mini sized n cute tampons, I dare not use them though I looked at them everyday. But I did continue to try to hv sex w my hubby. He has been patient n cannot move. Only I can move. Thought I just share w everyone my experience. My...

Hi everyone, I just recovered from shock. I went for my pap smear 2 days ago. Bucked up enough courage to prepare myself for 10 seconds. Then my gynae wasn't around so I went to her friend who knew of my condition. I remembered e last time when I had my first pap smear, it was just a very...

Hi everybody, I took no pay leave to get away from work, stress etc. No use.... I gave up too. I always hv the feeling that if the q tip droped or break inside, think I will die. Can't do it. Recently, I went guardian n saw this mini size tampon from brand op n tot they looked cute n more...

They stray a lot. My friend told me but his wife didn't know. They visit prostitutes....better follow hubby there if not, just accept the fact.

You are not. I was married for 6 years n no sex too.

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Natashawan, thanks for your feedback. I will take note. Ribbonz, my gynae is aware that I hv the vag condition. But to her, doing pap smear is 'tiny' n over in10 seconds so she told me it's different from intercourse. I just hv to count to 10. I tried once but unsuccessful. Ital, for me...

Ribbonz n baby paige, Thanks for the info. Natashawan, Glad to hear that everything is well for you. I started reading from where I stopped the last time n was worried for you. Good to hear the good news. I can imagine your fears n worries. Just like my situation now. Hope I am not...

I dun have the courage to look 'there'. Can anyone tell me is it very deep inside? Around how many cm?

Hi everybody, Sorry I was a bit down n didn't know what to do. Tried not to think abt it. My gynae has been calling me to go for pap smear since I hv not done it for six years but I am really scared. My hubby is really worried cos I hv pain on my lower right abdomen n I had really heavy...

My muscles felt tight ( no pain but shock feeling) when my hubby tries to go deeper. Always cannot. Like block out. Does doing kegel exercises help? How many times per day? I really wish there were short cuts n simpler methods to overcome vag. I hate the sight of dilators. Really cannot imagine.....