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Hi, So sorry to hear abt yr situation. I went through the exact same thing as you. Only diff is my ex-husband didnt ask for forgiveness or do anything to salvage the marriage. During that time, i did wat damon suggested and asked him to credit his pay to our jt account and to show me his...

Hi, I've divorced recently and noticed that the children's mailing addr seem to be tied to that of the father even though they are staying with me. The sch system shows his addr as the official addr for my children and ltrs from schools and govt agenciy are now sent to his addr. Anyone...

Hi andrew, Both your wife and you are in the comfort zone after yrs of being marriage. But unknown to yr wife, you are actually very unhappy with the current situation even though there has been few quarrels and you regard her as a good companion. To her, she might think that you are ok with...

Hi, If yr hb claim that it's the woman who's pestering him and has no intention to stay in touch with her, then it's really up to him to stop contacting her and block her nbr in his contact list, watsapp and facebook. Even if you block it off, he can still unblock it or save her contact under a...

You should let your hb knows how you feel abt his staying in contact with this prc woman. He might not be interested in her at the moment but with the woman taking the initiative no one knows what will happen next. If your hb cares abt you n treat her as just an ordinary fren, he shd cut off...

According to my lawyer, child maintenance is all the way till after university.

Hi Jaydon, From what you have written, you seem to be very unhappy with your wife's behaviour. But if that's how she is at the time of marriage and you still chose to marry her, why are you complaining now? You are blaming her for your daughters' behaviour as well. But dun forget, it's both...

Hi deprived, Initially he blurted out something abt he 'needs to talk' when in fact he's the one who's not communicating to me and whenever i asked him if there's anything wrong, he will say nothing is wrong. When i questioned him abt his 'performance',he simply said 'sorry'. Frankly, till now...

Hi sourapple, It's indeed difficult n in fact insulting to realise that the problem actually lies in u after u hv faithfully remained in such a marriage for yrs. It's so hurtful to think that after condemning me to such a marriage, he's actually having an enjoyable time out there. We are in...

Hi doseithappen, After reading what you hv written, would like to share with you my experience. Throughout my marriage, I've found my husband to be the rather conservative kind who gets fidgety with touch and he seems to have a rather low sex drive even at the initial stage of marriage. I...

Hi, Job still available? If so, pls pm me. Thks.

Hi a_n_a, Tried to pm you but dunno how to :p. i am currently in the land of temptation, can anywhere else be worse than here? All these yrs, nothing has happened. He only started going pub once in a while couple of yrs ago when frens came over and that's where this whole thing started. This...

Hi a_n_a, I understand how you feel. Cos I feel exactly the same. He's been trying to breakoff for months. In fact, it's cos of this intention to break(not cos of us, but cos the woman been bugging him) that the woman exposed the relationship. Even so,I still found/chance upon evidences of his...

Hi mumofT, After reading your post, I feel that our situations are rather similar.My husband's affair was exposed by his fling 6 mths ago and till now,I still cant make up my mind whether to leave or stay. My situation is rather tricky as we are stationed overseas and my decision will affect my...

Hi, anyone been to the legal clinic by aware? Does the consutation help?

I am one of the victims of prc woman as well. Very disheartened to know that man can just easily walk off 10 overs years of marriage once gotten involved with someone 15 yrs younger. No amount of words or reasoning can bring him to his senses. All I get is lies after lies. Really dunno what...

Hi, would like to find out what's the difference between joint and sole custody and what the lawyer actually looks at when deciding on the maintenance amount. I am a SAHM with everything provided by the husband initially, will I be able to get the same level of maintenance from him after the...

Hi, I recently just discovered that my hub is having an affair. Am still talking things through but possibility of getting a divorce. We are currently staying overseas cos of his job and i had been a sahm for 10 yrs. We have 2 kids aged 7 and 12. Any idea what's the chances of me gettg custody...

Hi cariebb, Thanks for your msg, these past few days are really the darkest days of my life and i think i'm having symptoms of panic attack. My kids are 7 and 12 and in fact the timIng is just right to bring them back here for their education. They are currently attending international sch...

We are singaporeans based in china for the past 10 yrs. For the past few yrs, my husband's attitude towards me had been lukewarm and i've attempted a few times to find out from him if there's any problem.Initially, his attitude gets slightly better but subsequently attempts to voice my...