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sigh. mine is the same as yours. my first cycle came 6 weeks after d&c. the 2nd cycle is 33 days. third cycle is 32 days. i started ttc after my first cycle until now also no news. my first 2 cycles were normal. but the third cycle's flow seems abit lesser than usual. not quite sure if i should...

Sorry for your losses but congrats on your rainbow baby! Can I check if your menses was regular after the mc? What prompted you to check with another gynae after 4 mths of trying?

Hugs. Do a mini confinement after that. Take care.

Because I couldnt accept the fact, and I needed more time to say goodbye to the baby. Guess I was in self denial back then. My gynae did a tummy scan for me during the review. Do prep yourself for that. It was very heartbreaking for me not to see anything on the ultrasound. I have always seen a...

yeah just take your time to heal. don't let anybody bring you down. shut yourself away from the world if you need to. i find that i heal faster without people rubbing salt on my wounds. i didnt go through d&c at NUH. I did mine at Mt E Novena. Here's my experience. Cost is $4k+ The procedure...

Hugs. Hang in there. Everything will be ok. Time heals all wounds. It will never take away the pain. But gradually you will get better. The crying will get shorter and eventually go away. No matter it is by ivf or conceived naturally the pain is still the same. Cos the baby is in our body. We...

Big hugs happy001. There are pros and cons of natural mc or d&c. For natural it could be tramatising and alot more painful. But less scarring since there is no surgery. Another downside is if your body cant clear everything on its own you have to undergo d&c as well. For d&c, it happen so...

You are really very nice. I simply cant do it. I avoid all fam and friends gathering. Cos i just couldnt bear to deal with all the kids. And i am very scared that ppl will ask me the dreaded qns.

I feel you. I am not bothered by those posts cos i find that i cant blame them for posting such things since they duno what happen to me anyway. But i feel super annoyed and irritated when my sil or bil do that. Cos they obviously knew i havent get over the mc. But yet they post pics with idiot...

No leh. My friends all have no problem conceiving or sustaining a pregnancy. So looks like i am the only one with problem. Sigh. Hence i also dont say so much of such things to them.

Thanks dear. I am just so caught up in this ttc cycle that i duno what else to be happy about with my life right now. I didnt count dates nor see tcm nor take any supplements for the pregnancy that i lost. But this time round i am so occupied with counting the dates seeing tcm and thinking about...

But the regular chicken essence also dont do much on conceiving right? I am not sure how gd the tian yuan xiang one is. But i read that ppl did really get preggie after consuming that. So just giving it a try. Hopefully it can do me some good.

I duno when i can recover completely. Maybe until i carry my rainbow baby in my arms. It has been 3 months and counting since i lost my baby. On good days i feel alright. On bad days it gets so bad that i will break down and cry really hard. I dont share much with friends cos they have never...

Hugs. I think one of the toughest part is having to go back to the clinic for follow up after mc. Everyone around me are preggies with their bumps. The joy on their faces. Whereas I just lost the baby. I think i almost died from sadness. For me i became very anti social after the mc. I skipped...

Yeah it seems like everyone around me are preggie and i am not. It also seems like everyone around me had a smooth pregnancy and i am the only one who suffered a mc. Even my colleague who had a mc around the same time as i did is alr preggie now and past the first trim. What is making things...

You have to stay positive! At least you have a hope now. I believe all will turn out fine!

Thanks for your response! I think i am gg to give it another go at ttc first and hopefully will have my rainbow baby! Cos like what hopeful mum and felicia says there might or might not be a conclusive result on the tests. So i guess i shall be brave and ttc again. And hopefully all will be good.

Thanks babe for the detailed response. I really don't mind doing these tests if i can find out what went wrong. But i do not know how to go about doing it. I conceive naturally after 3 months of trying. I didnt keep track of my cycle but i am guessing it is fine as i have menses every month just...

Hugs and sorry for both losses. Do you wanna share more of your test and how much it cost? Just need to take blood test? I had my first loss in Apr. It is my first pregnancy so my gynae is not keen in doing any test. But i kept thinking doing the test could help me get closure as well...

My period just came yesterday. Day 40 after d&c. The first few cycles will probably go haywire i guess.