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    Support group - Miscarriages

    can i check which brand of ovulation kit did you use? i am wondering if i wanna start using it the nx cycle.
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    Thanks for the encouragement. How did you get over the edd month? Right at the beginning i want to conceive by nov cos that will be my edd mth. I thought it seemed ok since i have 5 mths to try. But 3 mths have passed and i now only have 2 mths to try. I know it is stressful setting sucha date...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    I am losing faith. I read that we are very fertile after mc so i have alot of hopes. I see tcm. I buy tian yuan xiang chix essence. I count the days. I put in more effort in ttc. I take folic acid. But cycle after cycle i get disappointed. I know it is only 3 cycles of trying but it really made...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    Oh. I thinking if i should get the ovulation kit next cycle. Ikr. The whole world arnd me seems to get preggie so easily. My best friend just told me she is 13 weeks now! It literally feels like rubbing salt on my wound. Everytime my menses come i will miss my baby so much. If i didnt mc i...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    How u knew when you ovulate? U use the ovulation kit? My first cycle comes 6 week after d&c. 2nd one is 33 days. Third one 32 days. Now 4th cycle (current) 30 days. I duno if this is even normal? I was fighting my tears in the train just now. Once i reached home i started crying like mad. All i...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    I conceived within 4 mths when i started ttc. Then mc in apr. Have started trying since my first cycle after d&c. Until now also no news. My period just came and i really feel like shit now. Sigh.
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    Same here. Total bullshit in my opinion. Sigh. Sometimes i wonder if i will ever be a mum.
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    Now that we are on this topic of having something physical to remind us of our babies. Does anyone of you keep the u/s? I still kept that few photos and even the preg kit. It kept reminding me of my loss but yet i dont bear to throw it away...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    it's normal dear. I cried before and after the procedure too. I cried every single day for the next 2 weeks too. for me, crying is a release of my emotions. i always feel slightly better after that. my gynae also tell me the same thing. she said at least I can conceive naturally. there are alot...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    Rest well Happy001. I dont think you can ever forget about the d&c. It has been 4 mths for me but the very day they took my baby out from me is still so fresh in my head. Heal at your own pace. Diff ppl have diff healing process so there is no one size fits all. Just do whatever that makes you...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    I think ppl usually drink red date longan tea after d&c. There are no hard and fast rules on the dos and donts after d&c or mc. Some treat it strictly like doing a real confinement. Some dont even do any confinement. Some just do the minimal. For myself, i only ordered 2 weeks confinement...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    I think most of the caterer dont deliver on ph. I just eat normal food on the days they dont deliver. I am not sure about you but I am not ok to go back work so soon. I just wanna be alone at that pt of time. On touching water i didnt care. It is impossible. All i did during the 2 weeks is eat...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    I ordered from natal essentials. The food is not bad big portions. Can share with your hubbs sometimes. 2nd week onwards menu can be repetitive. They do have 7 days tingkat. I did 2 weeks confinement. U can ask ur doc to extend the HL?
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    Hmm. Those I not very sure then. Cos i didnt take those. I only ordered confinement tingkat and drink red date longan tea.
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    I started on the next day cos by the time i was discharged it was late evening already. Tcm and western med must be taken 2 hours apart. But i only see tcm after I stopped bleeding. Cos i think during the bleeding they usually dont tiao the body?
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    Just do it if u need proper closure. I regretted not doing the testing cos my gynae says there is no need to since it is my first mc. So now i will never know the root cause. Can the testing tell u the gender of the baby as well?
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    I think it depends on the hosp and gynae? Cos i did d&c but i took the medicine orally.
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    I didnt insert the pill. I took it orally. You will get cramps after eating the pill and may start bleeding. So once you take the pill you need to wear your pad already. It is the same medicine for those who take when they mc naturally.
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    The husband dont need to sign. Only your signature is enough. For my case, I did it at Mt E Novena. So I had a room to myself and hubbs was with me throughout. Until they pushed me to the ops theatre. After that they pushed me back to my room and hubbs was waiting for me there. Remember to wear...
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    Support group - Miscarriages

    Thanks for sharing and congrats on your rainbow baby!! I think i will try awhile more and see if i wanna visit the gynae again. My tcm says not to have red date longan tea leh. I forget what is the reason alr...

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