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  1. char-mee

    Support Group - Mid Term Termination Of Pregnancy

    Thanks. You are indeed very positive. Should learn from you. Apart from chromosomal tests on the couple, there are genetics mutation after fertilisation which we can't prevent. This is why miscarriages and MTPT happens. Unfortunately it's unexplainable... Nevertheless will think hard the...
  2. char-mee

    Support Group - Mid Term Termination Of Pregnancy

    Well will take it a day as it comes. Given that with those miscarriages and mid term loss, my 100% failure seems to point to me having chromosomal defects in my embryos. No matter how many times I try to get pregnant, bound to face such issues again. I know we can try ivf with pgd, does...
  3. char-mee

    Support Group - Mid Term Termination Of Pregnancy

    Actually I'm the same. I got pregnant immediately after my miscarriage in early August. I read in other countries cases there are similar instances but no proper empirical evidence. I'm going back to work next week and I actually dread having to explain. And gained extra kg over 6 months...
  4. char-mee

    Support Group - Mid Term Termination Of Pregnancy

    Honestly I'm not sure if I'm strong enough to try again. In 9 years of ttc, i Did 2 IUIs, 2 ivfs, of which resulted in 2 miscarriages. The most recent pregnancy was natural but unfortunately ended mid term. Can't help but wonder am I not fated to be a mother? I feel so alone most times...
  5. char-mee

    Support Group - Mid Term Termination Of Pregnancy

    Well, if you hadn't gotten your amnio results yet, why did your doc say DS? A number of friends were told their bb had DS at the Oscar tests, but fortunately turned out negative at amnio or harmony tests. Stay hopeful. I'm reaching 40 soon so it was like all hopes of having my own kid was...
  6. char-mee

    Support Group - Mid Term Termination Of Pregnancy

    Sorry to hear that you have to go through this. You will be undergoing induced labor so it depends how long your contractions take. I was admitted Sat 3pm, Bb delivered on Sun 3pm and was discharged Monday noon. Some ladies take longer I heard. I did 2 weeks confinement and now in my 3rd week...
  7. char-mee

    Support Group - Mid Term Termination Of Pregnancy

    Thanks. Bb was delivered yday, I could feel his movements as I was pushing him out. He was still breathing as the Doc delivered him. Hubby didn't want me to see as it may hv be too hard on me. I didn't cry whole of yday but this morning the loss got into me. The whole episode of termination...
  8. char-mee

    Support Group - Mid Term Termination Of Pregnancy

    I finally did the painful decision to terminate at 24 weeks. Bb was all clear for Verifi blood test and 20 weeks detailed scan showed some issues but it didn't sound life threatening. It was on my 23rd week scan the fetal cardiologist diagnosed my bb has multiple heart defects, which included...
  9. char-mee

    2016/05 ( May) babies

    I had it whole of last week. Took much longer to recover. Just keep warm n drink lots of water. Sleep more.
  10. char-mee

    IVF/ICSI Support Group

    Well, he shouldn't think that way. I was ttc for almost 9 years too, and during the wait after a failed ivf, I successfully conceived naturally and now Ard 14 weeks. I believe ivf has some way of rebooting our body so it may have helped. More importantly, keep the intimacy going.
  11. char-mee

    2016/05 ( May) babies

    I had spotting once I stopped my support too at 12 weeks. Went to gynae n he said probably was over exertion. So long as it's not continuous bleeding it shd b stop. Just dun walk too fast n long. Cramping is normal as uterus is expanding
  12. char-mee

    IVF/ICSI Support Group

    Aspirin also help cases where Dr suspect antibodies in your body may attack the embryo, thinking it's a foreign body. Also helps prevent infection.
  13. char-mee

    2016/05 ( May) babies

    Hi ugly doll, add me [email protected] please!
  14. char-mee

    2016/05 ( May) babies

    Just checking, are your next gynae visit like 4 weeks later once 2nd trimester? Isn't it worrying during the 4 weeks?
  15. char-mee

    2016/05 ( May) babies

    Think it's normal to feel that anytime during pregnancy. I'm not nauseous but no appetite at all... literally forcing food down the road.
  16. char-mee

    2016/05 ( May) babies

    It's a kind of harmony test but more advanced. Yes sent to US. In addition doc also have other tests which I forgot what they are. Paid Ard $1700
  17. char-mee

    IVF/ICSI Support Group

    I did endo scratch and got bfp thereafter. Although it turned out only a chemical pregnancy, I got preggy the next month. Think it helps some ladies.
  18. char-mee

    2016/05 ( May) babies

    Coz of my age Oscar was not good enough, went for the verifi test instead. Costs a bomb but results will detect chromosomes and even gender in 10 days later at 13 weeks.
  19. char-mee

    2016/05 ( May) babies

    My gynae said start of week 12 but online says 13. Well I just passed 1st tri effective tomorrow
  20. char-mee

    IVF/ICSI Support Group

    You are such a brave lady, lots of perseverance. I have loads of respect for you, and a lot of other lady fighters here.

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