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  1. CupofTea

    How do you determine which week you are at now

    Hello. You should count starting from the first day of your last period. Example, if your last period came on June 7, you will be 6 weeks along now. You can schedule an appointment to scan for accurate dating around the 8th week. If there are other concerns, you can go earlier too.
  2. CupofTea

    Jan 2023 Mummies

    You're right. Basis test list is Harmony, the other one is Panaroma.
  3. CupofTea

    Jan 2023 Mummies

    Yes, Oscars looks for ultrasound abnormalities associated with Trisomy 13, 18, and 21, as well as other structural issues indicative of problems. Accuracy is 90% versus 99% for blood tests like Harmony, Panaroma etc. My gynae also advised the more expanded blood test panel (with deletions etc)...
  4. CupofTea

    Jan 2023 Mummies

    I had to take a similar low-dose aspirin until Week 35 for my first pregnancy, because the first trimester screening blood test showed higher risk for pre-eclampsia (my mum had it for both her pregnancies too). But I didn't develop the condition, and the same blood test is normal for my second...
  5. CupofTea

    Am I overanalysing/thinking/reading him too much?

    Hi. Is this the relative you referred to in an earlier post? Objectively, it looks like over thinking in the best case scenario and being wishful at worst. Since he is attached, it is rather disrespectful on both sides to continue close interactions if there is some past/current tension...
  6. CupofTea

    Jan 2023 Mummies

    No, most gynaes use the first or second earliest scan to determine the EDD as later scans are an estimate of weight rather than length (length is used to date the pregnancy). Of course, the EDD of 40 weeks itself is an estimate, birth can take up to 42 weeks or even slightly later.
  7. CupofTea

    Jan 2023 Mummies

    The body typically requires more water than usual in the first trimester because of blood volume changes and in later stages for amniotic fluid levels. If you're having lesser than usual urine output, and/or of darker colour, good to drink up. Take small sips frequently if you have nausea or...
  8. CupofTea

    6weeks+1day, gestational & yolk sac present but no fetal pole

    Hello. Dating using LMP can be wrong since cycles can differ. For example, for my first scan my LMP date was around 8 weeks but the actual fetal measurement showed as 6+ weeks since ovulation had happened later despite me having regular period dates. So it is best to repeat the scan in 7-14days...
  9. CupofTea

    unexplainable infertility

    Hi. When you say you both have no issues, is it confirmed via fertility testing? Normally, if there is no conception after 6-12months of unprotected sex, you can approach KKH/NUH/SGH for public hospitals (via polyclinic referral if you want tonavail subsidies) or private fertility clinics (not...
  10. CupofTea

    [help] infant/toddler cannot sleep

    Haha the sleeping gets better by 2-3 months for most babies. Hang in there :D
  11. CupofTea

    [help] infant/toddler cannot sleep

    Congratulations on your little one :) Babies cannot fall asleep on their own from birth, and it is completely normal for them to nurse or be held to sleep. They also take a few weeks to understand day-night differences. Your best chance is to persist with a bedtime routine (dim light at night...
  12. CupofTea

    Trying to Conceive 2021

    False positives on HPT are quite rare, unless you're taking any fertility meds your gynae explained would affect HPT results. If you're sure that the test with positive result was taken correctly (followed waiting time for reading results etc), it may be a chemical pregnancy. Early loss is quite...
  13. CupofTea

    Trying to Conceive 2021

    Hi! I assume your positive HPT is the latest one. In that case, you can just wait and repeat the test. Hcg levels rise fast so best to test with first morning urine again. You can also use a digital test kit instead since the result won't have room for doubt :)
  14. CupofTea

    Nil

    Hello! I had my first child at 29 too. Cost is dependent on a lot of factors - citizenship (affects subsidy amount for healthcare, childcare); support system (having family to help out vs depending fully on external institutions for childcare from birth); job profile (whether your income is...
  15. CupofTea

    Help! Faint line on test kit

    The first one I took at night was faint to my eyes but the one next morning was clear. Hcg levels double daily so a second test or digital test will surely give you a definite result. I feel it is better to test again before your SHR as most gynaes advise against such treatments, especially in...
  16. CupofTea

    Help! Faint line on test kit

    Hello. Looks positive, but you can always repeat the test with the first morning urine or do a digital test. I did the same test the next morning after my first test, and it was a clear positive.
  17. CupofTea

    Week 6+5 days, no baby found

    Hi. I had my first scan at Week 7+2 and could only see baby through transvaginal scan. So better to wait as doctor suggested. Eat and rest meanwhile, do continue your folic acid.
  18. CupofTea

    Natural or Csect?

    Most gynaes do not offer elective c section for non-medical reasons. But no matter which hospital you choose, and even if you are scheduled for c section due to breech baby etc. you must prepare for emergency c section costs as a backup. You can choose hospital based on that maximum cost (Mount...
  19. CupofTea

    Married an asshole

    Hello. I just want to offer an alternative perspective. Maybe his way of dealing with the loss is different from yours, and he feels that acting like nothing ever happened will somehow make the situation go away. He may also just not know the right things to say or do to comfort you, or may find...
  20. CupofTea

    When to inform boss about pregnancy new?

    I understand it is frustrating but it is best to weigh your options before proceeding. Although it is not mandatory to disclose your pregnancy to potential employers, some companies require a pre-employment medical test or declaration for insurance purposes. Another thing to consider is how your...

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