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    Fiance has been visiting prostitute because of ED

    Div is the only solution here. Sorry for being frank. Rarely that a man out of 7yrs no sex de.. To be honest, if more than 1 month after marriage, and got no sex with you, probably i would have suspected and do something to it already.. rather than to wait till now...
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    I understand the feel. It's very difficult to judge if one is sincere or not to be honest. But well, like I said, if he got nothing to hide, he will certainly allow you to check his hp whenever he want, or even his bag, or etc. Won't bring around his mobile phone around... To be honest, my ex...
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    Correct... But there are still some whom is really sincere in turning over a new leaf.
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    Once trust is broken, it usually will take some time to rebuild again. And even trust is regain, it will not be that much as in previous. A lot of reason behind his back.. It may be that the woman returned back to China, and will never come back again. Hence though he love her, he know that he...
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    Divorce - Fighting for Care & and Custody

    Like what magret said, C&C will based on couselling, and depending on the outcome if it. Most of the time, C&C will be awarded to one party. But there's possibility that both have joint C&C For assets, yes including cars, investment and even joint account as well. Usually it will be split...
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    Fiance has been visiting prostitute because of ED

    Well, I do see there's few options over here. 1) As what Mongkok suggested, stay on this, while searching for another 2) Close your eyes, and continue in this relationship 3) Give up this relationship, and find another I will suggest you go for #3. From the way you describe, probably you are...
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    7 days late..

    I don't have this kind of experience, but well, maybe either can wait few more days, then to test again? Or check with gynae?
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    How do you and your partner handle finances?

    Precisely! This is the part I hate about them! This is exactly the same as mine... You know there's once I had arranged with my gfs for a trip to bkk together. It's a yearly trip we had and he too knew about it as well. Can you imagine he told me to get him a business class air tix? So he can...
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    How do you and your partner handle finances?

    Your bf sounds like my ex bf.. He too is super rich (but he's not retired at that point of time). A rich businessman, running his own company, have few cars, stay in bungalow.. Throughout the 2 years of dating, we ONLY went for hawker/food court for meals. Only during my birthday, he will then...
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    Sexless Marriage for >10 years

    Am more concern on sgguy's post... Most are about 'sexless', over here and there in this forum. And unsure why specifically saying 'I'm 50+ but still "fit & strong"'
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    Life after divorce - what is it like?

    It will depend on your age. If close to 35, you can appeal with HDB to take over the house Otherwise, can ask sibling/parents to join with you
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    Life after divorce - what is it like?

    Oh. Then you cant purchase/take over the flat. Unless you try to appeal through HDB (If you are near 35) or get your siblings/parents in order to indicate their name in.
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    Life after divorce - what is it like?

    It will depend on several factors? How long you been staying in this house? If more than 5 years, you can buy over his shares (provided his willing to) Otherwise, you need to sell the flat in open markets If less than 5 years, you can only sell back to HDB at a LOST
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    Lost interest in life from TTC

    Yes. You shouldn't give up hope if you really want a kid Can go for IUI or IVF or even TCM There's also fertility massage that help improve fertility also.
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    Well, you have your own choice :) If you think and felt this is the best option, then go for it
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    Support group for wives with unfaithful husbands

    Sometimes I rather to be independent than to stay in a house that is full of doubts, trust issue. Well, it's easier said than done, but I believe if one really want it, it can be done. Like what you said, there's possible also. I know of some whom are in such way. They stay together cause of...
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    Life after divorce - what is it like?

    Well, it doesn't makes any different if you divorce/separate with your husband in this case. Even separate/divorce, doesn't mean will have kids as well, with exceptional case... I do have a friend whom somehow in similar cases though. She and her husband have been trying for kids (iui/ivf...
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    Life after divorce - what is it like?

    Well, in that case, just file for divorce...
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    Life after divorce - what is it like?

    Not all men are like that. Like margret said, men at ALL age can be like that. Well, he's aren't able to throw you/kids out, since house is under both of you. How long have been the affair? From the way you said (multiple affairs), I bet it has been on going for quite some time. The main...
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    Sexless Marriage

    But well, how long you want to continue this kind of marriage? It's better to leave and let go to find your own happiness, rather than to cling on

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