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    Cancer

    @Mikoaii big hug to u.... don't take up unnessary burden upon urself. just be with him, be positive and live life as normal as u can. when he is up to it, go out for a walk. its great that immuno is working for him, hope he will recover. pray for both of u @Jel1992 u take care too. we all...
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    My husband and I have different dreams in life

    if ur husband is the kind i think he is, then u have to "让步" first. don't tell him u don't want. tell him u want to discuss how u can fulfill his dream / how to work out the finance. he can then let his defense down and talk to u. discuss with a open mind, check ur book and say out how much...
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    My husband and I have different dreams in life

    i think is "mid-life crisis", want to feel that he is alive by doing something drastic or something that he has been thinking for v v long. don't think this is so serious that u have to get D. u can do a spreadsheet on ur financial situation and discuss with him, see if both of u can work...
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    Gender disappointment and guilt

    many of us are "trapped' by the vision they have. boy can play with daddy, girl can be dressed up by mummy or must have 1 boy 1 girl or 2 boys can keep each other company. BUT.....these may not be true. children are born with different characters. i seen a brother v close to the sister, i...
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    Cord Blood Storing or Donate?

    came across this article, what a story. i already have my second son's cord blood stored. should i donate my third bb's cord blood?
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    is having confinement nanny necessary?

    if u have someone to cook, bathe ur bb, u r fine. i bathe my bb after 3 days. my mil lives with us so she cooks n i don't want another stranger in the house to argue with my mil. :p
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    Applications for toddlers? Need advice

    @Jel1992 Three cheers for you!!! Great determination. it is v upseting to see kids looking at their phone, while the old folks stare into the blank while adults talking. the kids dont get to learn patience and listen. @Daria i let my son play tetris, it helps him to plan. some music apps...
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    Should I give my P1 kid my contact number?

    when he first go to P1, does he have your contact number? did he cry or emotional when he was dismissed? if he is having anxiety, u would need to give hime more time to adjust. i lay down the situation when my son can call me from school. after a while, he stopped calling me.
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    Can I carry my 2.5month old baby on carrier?

    can, just need to support her neck and head.
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    Birthday Presents for 3y and 6y

    i bought this Lego brickhead from toysrus for my nephew. about $20. not sure if they have avengers. can go see.
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    Helper and Mother in Law Issues

    afraid that ur mil turn to u instead, since she won't have a maid to vent out. hmm....leave it to ur husband bah. mother and son so much easier to talk.
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    Any working mama still try to prepare home cooked meals?

    won't fail. at most too wet or too dry....hehehe i put slightly less water for the rice cos the cabbage and meat r wet. i usually fry the vegetable (esp carrot) and meat a bit, wait for the last 5 mins then i add the ingredients in to the rice cooker. cut the veg and meat to smaller pieces...
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    Been discriminated while pregnant

    @tinkyberz is right, no one is indispensable. on the other hand, there are other jobs and companies waiting for u too. so, chin up. ditch the sadness. think of this as an extended maternity leave. u got nothing much to do, so got time to prepare for the arrival of little one and rest, and u...
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    Looking for breast milk to bless

    not good bah... go see doctor lah.
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    Any working mama still try to prepare home cooked meals?

    try one-pot dish. put some chicken/pork with carrot/pumpkin/cabbage and mushroom into the rice cooker and cook them with the rice. you have claypot rice! or put all ingredients into a pot and boil them.
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    Helper and Mother in Law Issues

    i think u will suffer instead.
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    Helper and Mother in Law Issues

    power struggle + insecurity, i think. mine also. scolded the helper for not listening to her, when i only asked the helper to buy something. i stayed far away from the helper since then. ya, own mother easier. can scold her or tease her. but now my mum also don't listen. the more i say...
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    Been discriminated while pregnant

    hugs to @Jel1992 your dept doesn't seem to be a family friendly dept to me. probably better for u to get another job or transfer out. honestly, life is not the same after we have little ones. we only have so much time and energy and the little ones take a lot of those from us. with less...
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    What should i do?

    @Regine3838 just a thought. what if ur husband is out of job and he dare not tell u? like in "Ilo Ilo". i know is a bit drama but this can explain why he didn't contribute to the household. if he is having affair, he probably will smile/giggle whenever he looks at this phone. he probably...
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    How much should infant drink?

    hmm...seems she has good appetite :) y r u concerned? if she is drinking and growing well, then ok lah.

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