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  1. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    I see .. i managed to speak to the estate mgr however she failed to disclose details. I tried contacting her again but shes on long leave hence will get back to the covering personnel on monday. Im settling my divorce hearing first as he has set apperance. My lawyer just told me he will let me...
  2. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Thank you ladies! Now ive something to share. He engaged a criminal lawyer for this case.. hes not contesting the divorce but over the access to see my son & also the house.. ive checked with hdb regards to the transfer. They claim that i can take over the flat but whatever he paid including the...
  3. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Thanks tiff. Yes now im doing everything via the legal way den to dealth directly with the unethical f**ks. Im sure god os guiding is me through & showing things to me. Am sure ignoring them for now. How i wish theres a push forward button.
  4. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    That bloody bitch of my ex, trying to be too smart. They went to terminate my house water & power supply... Even to the extend of calling my lawyer to inform that their lawyer will contact them. Seriously im not interested with fighting with her. She should just be kept at where she should be...
  5. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Ive made a report with eye witness. Police told me to keep the report for the lawyer. Now im thinking to get an exclusion order since he imposes danger to us.
  6. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Problem nw has started. He has broke in & stolen things... what can i do?
  7. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Things have turned worse. Just found out the house has been broken in with the door spoilt & the lock broken. I dunno what is he up to seriously. Not giving us peace. Things also has been stolen from the house. Im soo stressed up. Not sure what to do. Trying to call him but to no avail.
  8. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    To what i understand, once papers are served, the other party is given 8 days to contest. If there is nothing from him, i can ask for a court settling date which eases everything. 1st hearing for the interim judgement & 2nd part for the ancillary. Im reconsidering the lawyer part.
  9. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Cos they attempted to hand in person to him but he alws mia. Hence, my lawyer gotten the summon to paste it over at my fil place which is the last known address. My spouse also trying to be too smart. Change his address to our matrimonial house without paying or staying there. Quite pissed.
  10. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    I see.. Was just informed that papers were served abt a week back & was passed to my fil. My spouse hasnt taken the papers & seems like hes not gonna contest the divorce. Im quite worried right nw hw things are gonna be like as im sure it will be contested when it comes to our flat since its...
  11. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Hi pixie, Mind sharing ur lawyer & the cost involved? Seems like my lawyer is tryna pull a fast one.. In cases whereby the court has to issue a summon for the writ of divorce to be served, any1 encountered paying extra on top of the agreed amt w your lawyer?
  12. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    I see.. but will bank be able to provide the loan that hdb cannot give me just cos i had taken their loan is it? I have to also see if im financially able to secure the place on my own..
  13. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    I'm in a stable job but not earning as much as him.. im confident that custody of our son will go to me as throughout his birth, ive been supporting all the expenses. If hes not able to pay any alimony to me ,fine, I'll request to deduct it from his shares. Ive not be dependent on him all this...
  14. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    As of now,i have pictures of him partying with girls in fb.. what else will be required?
  15. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    I see.. Ok cos i was thinking to meet up with him to get him to sign since he agreed to sign the papers. We met yest since it was my sons birthday. The twist here is he nw wants to fight custody of our son, leave me peniless by taking control of the house, claiming that hes in a stable job...
  16. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Hi ladies, Just to update I found my husband is with another woman 9yrs older & her husband just passed away. It seems like she has got money & seems to be enjoying. He is contactless & the new number is not in use already after a week. What can i do? My lawyer tried thrice going over the...
  17. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Ok, he hasnt change the address of our place as we only got the keys last july. My lawyer has served the papers to him. Meanwhile im attempting to reach my estate manager like pixie suggested. I know for sure he will contest over the house. Thus im reconsidering whether to just return back the...
  18. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Ok thanks pixie. Ill contact her shortly.. have been receiving calls repeatedly from his family. Gets me on my nerve.
  19. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    Hi just a quick check, Ive locked up our flat since all along ive been paying for it. He has just been released & wants a accommodation to let him rent 1 room. In midst of my lawyer arranging the divorce paper, mind suggesting what I can do since both is joint application.? I cannot lock the...
  20. J

    In a dilemma!!! Divorce, Flat,Custody & Maintenance - Need advice

    I see,thanks for the heads up pixie.. Im worried cos i dun have much funds to buy over his share. As of nw, hes only paying 10% which is $50. More or less hes paid less than 10k overall fr the flat. If hdb retains the flat, their compensation payout is less & will not be enough to pay the loan...

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