Recent content by zq2350

I would prefer if my mil leaves my family alone. She is so controlling that even when she visits my baby at my house, she would say things like 'don't put this here, don't put that there'. Hellooooo, its my house and I can put anything wherever I like. My hubby is so spineless that he follows...

Mooshe~ Don't let ur mil dishearten u. Mils are usually out to belittle dils and mine is really horrible but I managed to make my stand. Don't give up on ur happiness and family. Ur mil has no right to rob u of them. U are ur baby's mummy and I'm sure u will do a good job of caring for ur...

LoveLove~ I can't forget about my pils not giving my baby any gift or red packet either. I don't think my baby deserves to be treated this way. Worst is I can't stand it that they are NATO (no action talk only) by keep claiming that they love my baby but do nothing for her at all! Till now my...

Pooh85~ Same same here. On my hubby's bdae, his mom would call him and ask him to go home for dinner where she had cooked his fave dishes. As for me, I don't expect her to remember my bdae cos she can't even remember my name. She would either call me 'xxx(my hubby's name)'s wife' or just talk...

Is it okay for my hubby's parents not to give any gift or red packet on my daughter's 1 month celebration? My daughter is their first grandchild and a few of my friends who heard about this said that my parent-in-laws are very horrible.

I took a 10 days post-natal package ($650) by a Malay lady, who does house-visits and according to your preferred schedule. Tried and proven good. After birth my tummy was like still 6 months pregnant and after the massages, I slimmed down alot. Though still have abit tummy fats but got to...

I understand how u all feel about ur mil cos I have an evil mil too. A mil who thinks she is very smart and knows it all but actual fact is she do not have any IQ or EQ. I knew she don't like me the moment I was about to get married to her son. Everytime I greeted her, she pretended not to...

My baby's dialect is Hokkien, hence if I am not wrong, baby should address my FIL as 'Ah Gong' and MIL as 'Ah Ma'. Right? However, my MIL who is Cantonese, insisted on baby to call her 'Nai Nai' and FIL to be called 'Ye Ye'. Is not that Cantonese culture? Anyone can clarify this issue? Thanks.