Yeah. It is scary, everytime we fetch him home after that wanna bring him out for dinner. He don't wanna go out. Just wanna stay at home, it is like you said, are we going to leave him somewhere alone again. [emoji17]
Yeah. That's separation anxiety. I also hope he will get over it soon. Yesterday still okay, but today attend school, come again. Don't wanna go school.
That's not what I mean.
I am like you, short temper sometime will say nasty stuff. But never once i hit my love one.
I and my mil also not in a good term too.
Talk it out to your wife, ask her what's other options other than divorce. I am sure deep inside she still wanna hold on
Hmm, maybe you need to learn to control your temper first. It can probably help you save your marriage. It is good that you never hit them. If not you are really in a wrong.
Have you wonder why your mil don't like you now? Did your wife said something to her?
Sorry I misunderstood abt that.
Wonderful husband is also because they compromise each other & talk things out.
I believe you are a nice husband & wanna salvage the marriage.
What did your usually quarrelled abt?
Mind sharing?
Hi jayjay,
He is 20 months + old. What you said could be true also but the teacher did said he is shy & timid. Don't socialise with other classmate.
What I am thinking is "separation anxiety".
He felt helpless & lost.
Ziliang
Fight for it if you want your son. There must be a way. Singapore law is more towards women. Get a stable income a proper job. Black & white is the best choice for you now. Show to judge that you got the ability to take care. Your son can speak now, they can choose who to be with.
I would say " compromise" is the key words.
Even if you two divorce, you two will still need to keep in contact as there is already a responsibility to take care of. Unless either one willing to let go of everything including your child than yes. Is a clean cut & brand new start.
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I am new from motherhood forum ( a daddy over here) .
Need some advice & review regarding abt the childcare center & behavior for first time when they go childcare. I am staying at teck whye crescent area. My son & daughter attended Sparkletots at blk 3 choa chu kang.
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