I think it takes a while for a mummy to get back to working mode. Don't give yourself so much pressure. Do your best. After working hour, try to go for a walk in the park to enjoy the breeze or nature. You can go back to work after that.
Have you considered getting a helper to help you. You...
Open question to all:
What if the husband is the only son and only child, will you allow them to stay with you?
(them: husband's parents and they are elderly and frail. Example, one has high blood and cannot walk, one need to visit the doctor regularly type)
Confirm god will step in but depending on when god decides to step in.
My gf's ex hubby lost his affair partner and job after he sign the divorce papers. He was staying with his brother and he got kicked out too. Whatever my gf suffered, he suffered just as much. Karma.
Cheating has started to become a new social norm which is unhealthy for a society.
Unless there are strong measures to discourage such actions, it will become a societal norm. This will become very detrimental for the future generation where getting married or not is no longer a big deal...
I think during this period of time, everyone is sort of doing 2 -3 persons job in an organization due to headcount freeze.
Perhaps you can consider different options:
1) Take leave/Clear leave
2) Talk to your immediate supervisor or boss
3) Go to doctor to get medical leave regarding stress at...
If the guy wants the whole cake and eat it, such like he wants family (wife and children) but he also enjoys the 3rd party, how will hiring a PI helps?
I am just interested to know.
I understand men are egoistic creatures and value their face alot. If you blow up the matter, chances is he has...
Counsellors only listen to you. I don't think they give advise. They will probably ask why you feel this way, what can he (husband) do to make you feel better, have you told him (husband)?
End of the day, it is the guy who chooses to let go or hang on to the 3rd party. If the guy wants to let...