Actually a number of people said the same thing...that in the future, my GF might change her mind. But I don't know if that is true or not. At first, she said only one pregnancy but afterwards she changed her mind (after seeing how worried i was) "have one kid at first then see how".
I'm a 41yo guy dating a 30yo woman long-term. Marriage talks are serious, but we're stuck on family size: I really want at least 2 kids (my dream since young, aware of age clock), but she's firm on just 1.
Finances are stable, my job covers child-rearing costs, and I've planned backups like...