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I am not a sahm but I am still treated like an ignorant woman. Actually I should be thankful to my hb and his family. If without them, I would be like what they expected of me, a dependent woman who can't accomplish anything alone. Thanks to them, I am able to manage my children independently.

Has the marriage changed or is it because we have discovered something we did not realise before giving birth? I have been pondering for 6 years after the birth of my first child. It took me 2 years to realise that I am and will always be the family outside the family. I almost gave up my...

Candy1984, don't take the comments to heart. Some people just say things without much thinking. When I had my elder boy, hb's family and relatives all commented he looked like hb. After my 2nd boy was born, they all said the 2nd boy was a photocopy of hb. One aunt even commented that the elder...

I see. You would really need an extra hand. Are they in childcare?

If you are taking care of the children yourself, perhaps a part time helper can ease your load and keep your sanity. It depends on how young are your children. They can help to take care of simple chores. My 3 yo boy will join me occasionally in scrubbing the toilet floor. No detergent or...

Hi, i just transferred $56.79 via atm at 9.15. Let me know if i need to top up. Thanks

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Ash11, I think WP seems to have mood swings and is over possessive. When you do things not within his control, he insulted you. Leave him and move on. You don't owe him anything to deserve such physical and mental abuse.

Jasmintan, it takes time to change habits. Some can change slowly. Some can't be changed. My mil thinks that i should not be too close to my family since i am a married woman. Many years ago, she checked on me by calling my house number. I was not at home. So she called my husband to ask if he...

Jasmintan, it is easier to meet each other than to live together. 相见好同住难。 i have no solution to the showering. You can try to talk to your husband about it. But for toilet, you can prepare a small pail. Before you use, flush the toilet. After you use, use the pail to get some water and flush...

Ash11, why stay in a relationship with no peace? If you don't feel right about it, don't continue. You feel guilty towards everyone but you can't please everybody. From my point of view, my kids are the most important as they are still very dependent on me. My family is important too as it...

Ash11, divert you attention to other things. Focus on your children. You can start to learn cooking with your children or do housework together. I am also learning to cook and struggling with housework. I am trying to involve my kids in housework to ease my load. It is not easy as a working mum...

Ash11, I am glad you stand up for yourself and your children. I have 2 kids who are 5 and 2. I totally understand the part about not being able to make decisions for your own child. Just stay firm with your decisions. Egg yolk is brain food. It builds up the brain. I am not a good cook but i...