Recent content by ^stronger

Living under the same roof, means I can observe him and see if there is a sigh of change. leading own life as in I can go out with my friends, do my facial, nails, hair and don't have to worry about things at home. I don't expect him to continue his dark side of life. I feel this is not the...

Honestly, yes you are right, I know a leopard will never change its spot, the marriage will only be full of doubts always... But think of it from another angle. By starting a new life, whole new chapter of buying house, shifting house, Reno, furnish, settle kids school... All by myself...and...

Thought this thread is not moving cuz I opted for notification on the thread but didn't receive anything. Well...update for my case, I have calculated if I sell current house and shift out, the proceeds are little and not enough to even cover my Reno for next house. And there will be alot of...

As in go to the lawyer and do transfer of ownership before selling?

So there is no way I'm able to utilize his cpf for my next house purchase? Anyone know of any ways to get around this?

I understand we only need to go to the lawyer for 3 times for the whole divorce procedure.so to state how to distribute assets and the kids care and control will be during first appointment whereby they will draft the papers? So I need to be well prepared and know what I want before I go for the...

Hi, thanks thanks, that's What I meant. meaning after we sell this house, the sale proceeds need not be returned to his cpf, but both mine and his cpf amount used on the house can all be credited to my cpf only?

Need to start the process somewhere but duno where to start. First, has anyone engaged any lawyer that has some empathy and not just going through the procedure only? Thought this kind of lawyer will lean towards helping us to get the most fair deal. Can it be done within a budget of 2k if...

Is It necessary for both party to find their own lawyer? Even though it's going to be uncontested as agreed? can we just get one lawyer to do everything for us?

Nth time means many times... Over a period of more than 10 years... And not counting those I didn't manage to find out?? I guess I get stronger and stronger after each episode cuz heart gets tougher and realization clearer. I'm not as sad this time. Really. I'm just feeling bad that I have let...

Seeing that you are so strong inspired me. Same as you, we were together since Sch days and our kids are of similar ages. But for me, this is the nth time he is unfaithful. My boss always tell me men will never change but I thought God has changed him... I’m wrong, yet again. Staying together...