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It's almost a year since my mc in jan. didn't get any good news either. All I can tell myself is the time is not right yet. Sometimes I do feel helpless and sad. Good luck to us.

Don't do that anymore. Yes it's emotion roller coaster, you must let it out. Follow ur heart. Watch tv play some games. Anything that can distract yourself. It's difficult we know but time can heal everything. You will be fine before you realize. Meanwhile just try to do what your hearts tell u.

Totally agree! I almost went crazy googling all the information on the internet that my gynae who is usually v friendly warned me sternly NOT to google anymore. She say it's a negative behavior that will just spiral and get worse.

Hi june2012, Talk to people, like us or your friends / families who can understand what you have been going through. Doing anything that makes you happy like going for a holiday, plant some plants, read books. You are stronger than you think. Jiayou!

Hi LadyP, I am glad to share. Sometimes as we talk about it, we feel better. My baby was around 12 weeks when the leak happens. I think you are right coz when I went for scan the gynae said that my water is getting lesser than normal. I agree. Don't see better I also can't bring myself to see...

Act come to think of it, I think I had my waterbag 'burst' also. I feel a gust of water come out and After that is bleeding everyday. However, my baby heartbeat remains strong but was abnormal which is why I terminate the pregnancy. :(

Hi, I don't know what else to say to make you feel better except to give u a hug. *Sayang*

Be positive. I am sure u will have ur #2 soon. I am still waiting for my #1!

My doc from nuh asked me to wait for 2 cycles before I start ttc. I don't think the chances of mc will increase if you ttc immediately after the procedure. The reason to wait for a few cycles is for better monitoring of ur cycle dates and maybe also for your body to 'rest and recover'.

I remember my spotting stops within 7-10 days. Hope u are coping well now.

Sometimes is good to be busy, take your mind off. But also remember to rest and eat well!

Oh so touching I almost teared. :( I am sorry for your loss. You will have ur stars very soon!

Hi last_min, I was given 2 weeks mc by nuh when I did my procedure and I was almost 13 weeks then.

Yes I also agree guys have their own ways to deal with the loss. I also thought my husband had moved on until one day I realized he is feeling worst than me. So we must not forget to show them concern as well. Dun feel alone, ur husband is in this with u.

Ya you are right, coz we can't control what others say or behave. You will be fine soon. Time really can heal everything. Jia you! Thank you!!!