Recent content by soontobemumof3

Hi triple 70, my apology to u, certain part of my earlier post got mixed up with some info from other posting..... my husband is a Singaporean. I must accidentally hit the wrong button....sorry ( from $200/mth ........................all the way till n...

I did not hv any chance to see a copy of the so called 'cert of annulment' myself. Everything began when one of my close relative saw him with his now 'ex romance' (and so coincidence, she happen to be my relative ex- schoolmate). And later when my relative met up with his ex-schoolmate and...

Hi Cat, tks for sharing your own parent experience with me. Your mum is so strong and brave , she indeed deserved all your respect for all her hardship put into upbringing of u and ur siblings despite facing lots of setback. Our case really look so similar, my $50/wk also equivalent to...

Hi all, I found a night club non-transferrable membership card bearing a lady name in my husband wallet.....after he came home at 2am this morning. Took a pic of it, not to sure whether it can be use as kind of evidence in future to proof that he womanizing, fooling around and he is willing to...

Btw, years back when he is earning much much lesser $$ than now, at that time I did mentioned to him to put the kids in cc or nanny or get a maid to help out and I be able to come out and work to help lighten his burden but a straight NO from him. And early last year, I did mentioned again, he...

Tks SeR, really so touch and appreciate everyone out there of coz including u, for all ur kind hearts, care & concern plus all the various advices......... Yes, I did do some soul searching on my part and also agreed that a marriage take two to make it work on- thus, wat i can think of is I...

Hi ann, tks for ur kind suggestion. Yes, house cleaning / baby sitting during day time seem the best option now to earn the extra $ apart from my miserable $50/week allowance. But again I hv restriction-- by youngest who is not in any childcare yet and hvg no alternative caregiver. He...

Hi wellness, sorry or pardon me for my bad standard of English. Pls do not misunderstand me, I do not at any point over time thinking that u are just 'sweet talk' or implying ad 'GOD' to help. I am so very sorry if I give I that impression. Being clueless, headless, hopeless at this point of...

Hello mag, read ur post and found both of us hv some similarities. But u r much stronger than I do coz u endure for so many years -- how? I am also a SAHM for 3 kids (much younger than ur coz my elder is only in P5 this yr and youngest turning 3 soon). Courtship for 5 years and marriage for 14...

Hi Wellness, tks for your reply. Frankly speaking I was kind of overjoyed when I first saw ur post pertaining to mine stated that u do understand me looking for home base job and u hv wat I looking for ....on my part w/o much tot of wat can I do, I juz forward u the mail. I am sorry. After much...

Tks SeR, janey, Diana, aria Jo, Ayana and all those kind hearted people out there for all ur suggestions, ideas, information and even offer to help lending pairs of listening ears for a helpless mum like me...... Still I unable to get out of all the trouble arrows shooting from NSEW...

Tks Janey, I am clueless to everything's, maintenance mediation? Does that mean I hv to get it done thru lawyer?or where can I seek help for this- free?? Yes, he dun love me anymore, but does it mean a divorce is a must? Or let him do wat he want outside and I stay put for my kids in this...

Hi wellness, hope to hear fr u ASAP. I am really eager to hear fr u wat u hv to offer for me a miserable and helpless single mum to be ....... I am urgently in need of job( especially home base if possible) tks.

Tks Wk78, I total agreed that this is a $$$$realistic world. Yes, we hv 3 br, but the idea of rent out is impossible...... My 2 bigger kids are sharing one room and is also act as their study room with lots of stuff, me, my youngest (we sleep on the floor mattress) and unfaithful husband are...

Yes. But like I said he so called ' long working hours - leave home at 7-8am back at wee hrs, earlier past 12mn daily, does not give me any chance to take up part time not even wkend. Sometime he also claimed that he need to work or cannot handle the kids.........(my trust and understanding...