Recent content by ribbit999

Hi, mind to share your story here?

I found out my hubby's affair 2 months ago and I'm currently filing divorce. Please bear in mind if the innocent party continues to live together with the adulterer for more than 6 months without commencing divorce proceedings, the adultery can no longer be used as the basis for divorce.

And yes, why I wanted to sue both of them is becoz I also agree its better to let the lawyer serve both of them instead of me go to her house and make noise which make myself ugly. At least by suing her then it's the correct and legal way.

Yes, I know that girl, I even have her address because I know her and her ex-bf personally, in fact she was still with the ex-bf when she started together with my ex. And what make me so angry at her was becoz she "use" my daughter to win the heart of my ex, she always told my ex to bring my...

yes, I have evidence, I hired PI for that last month. The other woman is very young, a fresh grad reporting to my soon-to-be-ex, I was thinking to sue her to let her family know what is their daughter doing

yes, I know the best way to move on is focus on myself rather than him, but it;s just difficult, I want him to regret, i dunno but maybe with him to feel regret that will give me a bit of relief from the pain I'm going through now. By the way, I've started engaging my lawyer and will send out...

while I'm trying to move on and i think I can see myself in future, I can't help but wish to know life after divorce on the cheating party... will he get his karma? will he regret? will the other woman feeling guilty? and etc...

any good lawyer to recommend?

Thanks, I will start looking for lawyer, it only happened last month and I've been in hibernating mode for the past few weeks, guess it's time for me to start fighting now.

yes, I've already collected all the receipt and proof, even got the adultery evidence, but just not sure whether to use tat or not. Does proving adultery helps in getting more maintenance? I havent start looking for lawyer because he told me he will send the letter soon so I tot I will just wait...

while we are talking about life of the one being cheated after divorce here; how about the life after divorce of the party who cheat? I know I shouldn't bother this anymore but i just can't help to grudge while imagining him happily dating with that bitch

one one hand I constantly remind myself to be strong to fight for the rights of myself and the kids, on another hand I'm so emotional and filled with so much hatred and anger, it doesn't help when he just walk away without feeling remorseful. I don't know how to get through this especially its...

you mean it's difficult to request more than 50% child maintenance? Meaning while I'm already taking care the kids by myself yet I should be paying more than him to sustain the child expenses?

our salary are on-par but he spend a lot in her drinking, smoking and even prostitute (which I just found out after the expose) hence he always tell me he has no money and make me pay most of the bill. If we are earning the same, is that high chance I can get him to pay 60-70% of the children...