Recent content by PYHui

1. No bad reputation. 2. Location and timings of antenatal sessions. 3. If you want to minimize the chance of a C-section, minimize episiotomy, etc., your gynae must also believe that. 4. If you want your husband to watch, take pictures/video, have water birth, etc., your gynae must believe in that.

Do you love your husband or not? You might not like everything about your husband but do you love him? Does he love you? Yes, it is true that some of us might not "do" often, and some of us just don't *ahem* often. Sexual frustration is a thing for us sometimes, yes. Just focus on him lor, get...

An epidural will definitely remove the pain but there could be some unintended side effects. People say that without feeling the contractions, the pushing might not be effective unless the doctor/nurse give you good feedback and instructions. (I've no experience with epidurals...) Some gynaes...

Here's another thread... https://singaporemotherhood.com/forum/threads/xxy-syndrome-also-known-as-klinefelter-syndrome.262498/ It is not life-threatening. The most serious common outcome is male infertility. Some can have various problems but it is different for each individual. All these...

It depends on why the husband has no sperm. It is true that some problems are serious and really no sperm is possible. He just has to accept that he can't have any genetic children, and go find a donor. If it is a fixable problem, then get it fixed. A man can have testosterone level like a...

You need to find out if you or your hubby have any problems. (It might be your hubby.) See a gynae. (Not all problems affect fertility seriously.) If you both don't have any problems, sometimes all it takes is to relax, (quit your job?), change your life, see each other in a different light...

If you really want to be safe, jab only on your Day 1 - 3 (when you are not pregnant). The stress on your body by the vaccine is only for about three days, I guess. You'll be fine by Day 14 (assuming).

(Married in 2010, baby in 2016.) I think the correct mentality is important to stay sane and also to conceive eventually. You need to ask yourself how important it is to conceive. For most of us, it is very important. Your work (most women work before having kids) will probably be a source of...

@crazymee, just be open with your GF (wife already?) and you can both work through it. If the fertility problem is with you, then it is easier and more appropriate for you to work at your end first rather than subject her to IVF straight away. Most male fertility problems can be dealt with by...

Fertility tests will surface any issues. If there are issues, then you might need to fix them or/and do IVF or ICSI. If it is only your hubby, it will probably be simpler to fix. If there are no known issues, and if you both have not led healthy lives, I think you and your hubby should improve...