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i would probably just need to get back to the routine of not having a helper. my MIL might be going through a knee cap operation soon. but the thing is, she keep postponing it. my husband think that maybe she is in pain that is why she is always so grumpy. i do want to say something to my MIL...

yeah its like we are trying to chase her out. she feel we are siding with someone not in the family. to me, if you are in the wrong, you are in the wrong, no matter who. i wish i can say much but my husband begged me to not get involved. which is hard cause i am always at home and i know whats...

yeah for sure no helper will ever make her happy. my bro in law's helper was staying over at my MIL's place for a few days as he was on holiday and the helper wanted to run away la. the other conclusion i have to send my helper back (sadly) and let my MIL suffer with no helper.

yup i am already planning to pay my MIL back the deposit just to shut her up. since the rest of the money (the initial 3k plus) we paid for it. i do want to be an active house owner, and i did tell my helper to listen to just me and my husband but my MIL will say she keep listening to ma'am (who...

I do feel bad for my hubby too, he dont like the way the helper is treated too but for some reason he is not as fierce as me when handling our own mothers. Haha! The BTO would be really in 2 years time. Still a long way more to go. I am actually tempted to send my helper back but it's really...

Wow at least the issue is with your own mum. I think if my mum is giving this issue, I would have scolded her. But since its my MIL I have to bite my tongue.

Wow at least the issue is with your own mum. I think if my mum is giving this issue, I would have scolded her. But since its my MIL I have to bite my tongue.

Hello everyone! I am going through a terrible phase in my life and I feel like screaming or punching a wall on the floor. So I got my own place but my in laws are staying with me for a few years till their bto is ready. I work from home so initially I was fine with juggling my son and working...

Hello everyone! Anyone gave birth in NUH recently? Mind sharing the total bill, I'm a private patient and I am thinking of getting the A1 room :)

Hey all, I just realised that Mount Elizabeth Novena do give a gift for mummies and babies who stays there. Any idea what the goody bag consist of? I know not the most important thing but I'm just curious, haha!

Ahhhh! Ok thank you, you have been really helpful! Seems like the babies bill isn't as bad as ours, haha! But i think my PD's fee is abit on the high side. Even my gynae, her package doesn't include her visits when I am in hospital.

I checked with my clinic and the $600-$800 quoted by them is for PD's professional fees. do you remember how much you paid for the baby's hospital fee? Minus professional fee? And yes I'm trying to prepare as well, I don't want to get a heart Attack when I see my bill. And from what I...

hello everyone! first of all, congrats everyone! i am due 07/09/2016 and guess what, i have not decided on a hospital yet. my gynae delivers at mount alvernia, mount elizabeth novena and thomson medical centre. Mind sharing with me what hospitals you guys have decided on? I am just tempted to...

Hey there! Thanks for the reply! After reading up more, I got myself more confused, haha! Cause my clinic told me i need to pay 600-800 for paediatrician. So I am guessing, medisave will help me pay for that too? or part of it at least? And I need to pay another 600-800 for anaesthetist fee...

Hello everyone and congrats on this happy news :) I am currently at 33 weeks and I have yet to choose a hospital, haha! My gynae only delivers at mount e Novena, mount Alvernia and tmc but right now I am leaning towards Novena. Before I make my final decision I would like to get a gauge of the...