It could just be 1 house now but as you get more income, you could be quarrelling about getting a 2nd house. What happens after getting the 1st house or 2nd house? Maybe you want to change to a better car?
Human nature is always greedy. It's not a bad thing but not good if obsessed.
Thought...
Actually only 2 days but we have been on this issue for maybe 6months or so? Everytime we just end up not talking about it. Until he asks me to talk about it and I ask my financial planner friend to talk to us. So after that I totally gave up the idea while my husband still wants to go ahead...
I do believed something has happened yesterday.. He did go and talk to a property agent during lunchtime by himself. And when he picked me in the car, he refuse to say anything to me. He just kept an angry face no matter how I try to talk to him. And again, refuse to talk to me this morning.
So...
I have called up a mortgage specialist and based on the details I've given him, the specialist has given me a number and a monthly payment amount, which is too much for us to bear right now.
Honestly, my husband (other than the agitated outbursts) treats me well. Whenever he can in his means...
Hello b-brave,
I actually think its mid life crisis too! Which I told him before.. but he chose to ignore.. So what i did to reduce his frustration was that I suggested going on trips just the 2 of us, do something fun by ourselves. feel alive like you said..
hello jel,
thanks for sharing your...
I have asked him, what if we are being retrenched. But he thinks that a private property regardless of what u buy, there will be capital gain in the end. He is just saying we shld just not care and buy the property. If we want to downupgrade, we can sell our private anytime and still earn $...
It is a decent combine income, but we do not have cash on hand now to purchase a 2nd property. Any down-payment easily needs cash of 50k, which we don have right now. And already my CPF is being used to service my HDB loan. So not enough to do anything.
My job is comfortable enough to be at...
Hi lovely 0315,
My husband is 44 and I'm 35 this year. My youngest girl is in P3.
Our health conditions are ok for now and we are fully covered on medical and hsptl plan.
In fact, he told me his job is not stable for the next 6mths. His company just did a major retrenchment last wk.
The...
I can't understand what's so upsetting about having a girl when you already have a boy snakebaby2013? And you actually want to end the pregnancy...
I hope you are not the typical love-boy-more-than-girl mum or mum in law next time.
I have a boy and 2 girls and I can't tell you how blessed I am...
Thanks Eppy for replying me..
Sorry to hear about ur scenario. Hope you r getting better.
Well, the only reason he involes me is because he needs me to take a loan e him tgt.. that's about it..
How I wish he would just kiss me in the face and says everything is alright. But he's rather giving...
We have been together for 15years. I have a sec 1 boy and 2 girls. We have been always living happily for the past 13years. The reason is mainly because I compromise a lot. I always think since we are husband and wife, I dont want to be too gek gao.
I work, do all the housework on wkends, Im...
Hi Gerrydin,
There are many things you need to take into consideration when dealing with children of special needs.
It can be physical, mental, academic qualifications etc.
May I know which area you are referring to?
Dear All,
I have 3 schooling children with my youngest daughter diagnosed with GDD. They are in Primary 5, Primary 2 and Primary 1 respectively. 1 of the most challenging difficultities that I faced is not able to find a suitable tutor for my youngest daughter. Lucky my older kids have no...
Dear All,
I have 3 schooling children with my youngest daughter diagnosed with GDD. They are in Primary 5, Primary 2 and Primary 1 respectively. 1 of the most challenging difficultities that I faced is not able to find a suitable tutor for my youngest daughter. Lucky my older kids have no...