Recent content by MoeLanYong

Reversible ligation. Basically a surgical procedure to tie the fallopian tubes. Can be reversed but need another surgery.

Lubricate it more. Condom shouldn't break.

Your children don't need to be first in class. They need a set of loving parents. You are the one adding strife, in your desire to catch up with the Joneses. I hope you choose wisely.

Don't mind me say, why are you destroying your marriage over your kids education?? You may find their education important but your husband may not share your view. Want them to do well in school, outsource to enrichment classes. Want a quality marriage, hire a domestic worker to help out in...

@Abused wife pm me if you do not want to talk in public. I am in a Divorced / Sexless marriage chat group. It is a closed private group with about 300 people facing marriage issues. I think you may find the answers (or support) you want. We are on wechat so everyone is anonymous.

Yes. In most cases, the default position is the mother gets care and control when the child is under 12. I say most and not all, because some mothers actually opt not to have it. Lack money is not a valid reason to lose it. The father has to pay child support to the mom, who will care for the...

Also, please do clarify, if your divorce - in Singapore - is finalised? You wrote it is "ongoing". It is confusing. Why is it "ongoing" when the care and control issue is already determined? Or is the care and control issue still not determined?

You wrote you were granted "care and control from the first court ruling, to which he appealed and later won his appeal". My question is How did you lose it? Because the default position is all moms are granted care and control. It is a well established fact no man can get care and control...

Thank you for taking the time to clarify. Thank you also for not taking my post negatively. Can you explain why 1. you lost care and control of your children to him? 2. the family court judge is not persuaded by your arguments above - i believe you would have submitted all these in your...

Since you asked, don't mind me saying. I feel you are either hiding some information or you are refusing to come to terms with them. The Singapore family court is just. The judge will not award your ex husband care and control when he is abusive towards the children or when you have taken good...

I am a guy. Let me tell you, all those your husband is asking for, is very normal. I have walked that path before with my wife. Out of interest, I have joined a Sexless/Divorce group. The stories I hear are heart wrenching. Most times, the couple have ceased or have minimal sex. They become...

This is a female dominated forum. You won't get answers here. Most cannot even identify with your problem. They will think you are evil and selfish. It is going to get worse for you. I am in a support group of 200 with many men facing this issue. Sexless marriages. After the kids arrive. Some...

That was my view when I was a 7 year old. In a broken family. I promised myself if I can ever grow up, I will want to help someone caught in my same situation. Because no one helped me then. Now, I married 20 years and have come full circle. To carry out a promise. My bread crumbs was the time...

As a young child that seen my parents go through a traumatic divorce, I disagree. I can be either be with my dad or my mom. It can never be complete. Ever. In my life. I cried most nights. Before my parents divorced, even though they quarreled most times, there were some days they didn't. I...