Recent content by lostmypurpose

Ya indeed I have no idea too. But thanks all, was more wanting to know if this is normal among couples, guess it's not...

Thanks for your reply. So seems like issue is with me then

Hmm are guys still so physical in their 40s?

Hi all, first of all I'm a guy. Would like to find out as well as get female's opinion on an issue. I'm married with kids and would say family life is quite the usual routine, worrying about kids all the time, and work is stressful as well. I'm in my 40s, and do not crave for physical intimacy...

Hi, saw your post on moving on. Actually people who are in a marriage may be also running the routine life as you. If you need an outlet to share your thoughts, worries or just rant, happy to communicate. Looking to find someone to talk to as well.

You shouldn't need to contribute to the expenses. Your siblings are living there they should be contributing fully for the expenses, esp if they are already working. Appreciate it may be a difficult conversation, but it must be done else you are just suffering silently. Hope your siblings are...

Pony I think it still depends on how you feel towards him. If you still love him, then try to be better to him. Be nice to him, change your attitude to be softer and not caring for him, and see if it works. Sometimes we males are like that. When you become nicer to him he may rethink his...

Do you harbour feelings for your colleague? If not just stay a distance as friends. Don't need to reveal too much. Also you should tell your hubby about the baby, and see what his reaction is. That should tell whether he still cares about you.

Agreed. Her weakest point is her son. The only thing is whether your hubby keeps listening to her or she listens to your hubby (sounds like the former though). From another thread I see you are also having issues with your hubby so may need to handle more on your own. Do try to get your hubby to...

Be-brave methods are worth giving a try, but it doesn't sound like he still has love for you. Have a good chat with him, and ask him whether he still wants the marriage, what he expects of you etc. Better to clear things up than leave them hanging and not sure what to do.

Yeah don't give up on your children if your concerns are just financial. He will need to pay for their upbringing and im sure you should be able to find something. It won't be easy, but as long as you love your kids you will pull through.

Hi actually judging from the fact you guys could have a heart to heart chat and he did apologise, I think things can be saved. He may not be able to change this immediately, but I think over time he can do it. I also changed over the years over some things that my wife didn't like, though it did...