Recent content by lonely&sad

Dear all, Thanks for the advice, will get my sister to go see a doctor first. But recently she's in pain so maybe they will consider giving up on the baby and go for the operation to remove the cyst.

Dear all, I have some queries to check with all the mums here. My sister just got pregnant for 5 weeks, but the doctor she went to says she has dermoid cyst or something on her ovary? Advised her to reconsider giving birth and maybe opt for surgery to remove it. My sister has been crying the...

Hi mangohope, I'm sad to hear that you are having the same plight same I am. Actually me and my wife did not go into separation before divorce, in fact, she is still staying with me and I'm still providing for her and washing her clothes. I am sure that you can divorce immediately if both...

Hi redvel, Yes you are right. But my wife will never be telling her side of the story. It no longer matters who's right and who's wrong anymore. She's still staying at my place so I will just continue taking care of her for the time being. Hopefully we can stay close even after divorce, just...

Hi LindaChew & carebearq1, The main reason I started this thread is to see if any member of the fairer sex will sympathise with my wife, so as to give me an excuse to continue my marriage. But I guess what she did and the way she is still behaving is simply unforgivable. I always tell friends...

Hi carebearq1 & rykgirl, Thank you once again for sending your well wishes. The lawyer just called 2 days ago, asking me to go for the final signing. Once I signed it, my marriage will come to an end. 10 years of being together will come to an end. Honestly speaking, I am still upset that...

Hi rykgirl, passion88, Hayashi89 and infrared, Thank you for all your advice. Been away from this forum for a while to calm myself. I guess I have been in self denial for so long, even now. Deep down I know she doesn't deserve my love and my care, yet I couldn't bear to see her self-destruct...

Hi passion88, I understand what you meant by one has to love himself/herself first before he/she can love someone else. I have always believe in this but I guess it's easier said than done. It's not about giving her a second chance either. This is the third time I have caught her having an...

Hi ladies, I am a guy here and I'm undergoing the painful process of divorce. I read that most of you are holding on to your marriage because of your children. Thank god I don't have to go through this but I understand how all of you must have felt upon discovering about your spouse cheating...

Hi triple70, Your thoughts is exactly the same as mine. I didn't want to get married in the first place. I was already taking care of her well being from the very first day I met her. And when she moved into my house, I made sure I took good care of her. I washed her clothes, prepared all the...

Hi Jumbo girl & rykgirl, Thank you for taking time to read through the long story that I wrote. Even though it hardly summed up the past 10 years, it sort of show how much I love her. But it takes 2 hands to clap. I guess I am at fault for causing her to become like this. I shouldn't pampered...

Hi all, I am a guy here and I thought I could use this thread to seek advice from members of the fairer sex. I am in a dilemma now, and I guess guys will just give me a certain answer to my question. I know my wife 10 years ago. Only after being together, did I know that she is from a...