A winter jacket is a must as baby will catch a cold easily, winter scarf, cap if any.. Those daily basic necessaries and thick socks and shoes. Can bring along those long sleeves and long pant that can keep baby warm.
Nowadays, all the maids seem so unreliable. cannot be trusted as well. It is always the best to install CCTV at home to monitor their behaviors or ask someone to look after them as well. Never leave them alone without supervision especially when there are kids around.
Sound pretty bad as your husband is feeling frustrated over this issue and he has to leave the house just to avoid your mum. I understand that if one day there will be a big fight over this issue, i think you will be stuck in between and unsure on how to solve this conflict. Maybe you can find...
Can try those Chinese physician and take their medication to improve and strengthen your health. I find it quite reliable or do IVF however it will be a very painful and difficult process.
Try to persuade both party his your mum and your hubby to understand your plight. Tell your hubby that even though she spoke broken English to the children however she had always help out to look after the grandchildren whenever you guys need help. On the other hand, talk to your mum that you...
No worries!! :) I'm pretty sure you will be bale to pass this phase. Just continue to hang on there and be strong always. Think of your baby as part of your motivation :)